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I just recently told a distant relative (4th cousin) that she wasn't invited to the wedding. She wasn't on the guest list originally, but I knew she was wanted to come to the wedding since she asked for an invite on my facebook.
I honestly had no issues with her coming, although she wasn't on the guest list originally, but my maid of honour (my cousin) and her mother don't fancy this distant relative and would rather not be in her presnece. The last 3 times I've spoken to my MOH she asked me not to invite her since it will stress her and her mother out.
I love my MOH (alhtough she has a very difficult personality and is sometimes selfish) and her mother, who was like my second mother growing up.
I just hurt this distant relatives feelings and I feel terrible.
I am also worried that my uncle is going to hold a grudge and make life difficult for me now, since he worships this distant relative and is best friends with her. Oh my.
Did I do the right thing?
I wouldn't mind having her at the wedding, but I don't want to piss off my MOH and her mother ...Also don't want to have feeelings hurt and an uncle mad at me.....
I feel like I am in the middle of the Triple Alliance and Triple Entente.
What do you girls think? Words of advice much apprecaited.