This is allie84's Chocolate Wedding!

My fiance has 3 daughters (at time of wedding they will be 8, 5, and 3) and I have a daughter who will be 7 and a son who will be 5. We want them all to have a 'role' in the wedding but it's a little hard to decide. I know my son will be the ring-bearer. His youngest daughter is a little slow in her development so she may not cooperate as a flower-girl. Not having her will cause an unbalance if we have only 3 flower girls and one ring-bearer. We are hoping that it works out so that my son can 'pimp' two girls on each side. If not, how do we give each of the other 3 a role without any of them feeling left out? I am a very particular person, so an unbalance will bug me to no end.