Ok I want to kinda try and clear the air before I delete my account. I have way too much going on in my life to keep up with this drama.
I saw a post yesterday on how balloon releases are bad. I left a comment explaining why my venue allows it. I was in no way rude or disrespectful in my comment. If it came across like that then I am truly sorry. I simply stated the reasons that my venue allows latex balloons to be released. Then I mentioned that there are lots of different things we do as brides and as ppl in general that harm the Earth. By doing a balloon release I am not TRYING to hurt animals. That is not my intention. I didn't say...hmmmm what should I do to kill millions of innocent animals on my wedding day?
That post was deleted sometime. I'm not sure if anyone else commented it or not. Then this morning I see the post again. This time with tons of !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! marks and things of that nature. I kinda took it as shouting. That and the all capital letters. (Now I notice this bride does always use capitals) But I still took it as she was pissed off at me. Why??? All I did was nicely explain why my venue will allow it. And point out that things we all do also effects the Earth.
Today when I saw that post I was offended. She said my theory (that my venue told me ) was crap...I didn't attack her in my comment I just said I would like to agree to disagree and things of that nature (feel free to read the post it's still up)
Now I see her newest post about not being here to fight. Well I am not here to fight either. I have asked her to drop it and let's move on and just agree to disagree. I do not have a problem with brides informing us of things. That's what WBC is for. And yes it is her blog and she can post what she wants and feels. I understand that. I am fine with that. But in this forum you need to realize that ppl will comment back. That's what we all say we want. We (not all) bitch when we don't get enough comments and we (not all) bitch when we get them. I feel damned if i do damned if I don't. Ya know???
What has prompted me to get rid of my page is the fact that I just went to my latest post on my tears of joy packets....and I see her balloon release post is on my comments....and then a nasty comment from her under it. This is too childish for me. Really get a life please.
Ladies look at the post on my page (the tears of joy one) and maybe you will see what I mean...it really has me upset. I'm just over it at this point. Have a great day future brides!!!! Happy planning. And good luck to you all. I have gained so much inspiration from this site and you girls. Thanks again!!!!
alwaysandforever said...