As I've researched more and more I have come to like the black and white damask themes. This is what is on the invitations also. I was looking at the reception hall's website and I think I have the option of having a damask print table cloth for the tables. Here's my vision:
Damask print table clothes
Black napkins
The black and white jar with the yellow m&ms showing favor on napkin
Yellow flowers as centerpiece (with black vase??? depends on cost)
white chair covers with black sash
Yes? No? Maybe? Too much?
I could also do white napkins so it's not too much black. I am so glad we get to do a mock set up and play around with all the options in person. I've got so many ideas and I'm sure after seeing them some will be out the window.
I could also scrap the damask...I don't know. I like the look of it in my head. We will just have to see!