09/06/2010
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How are you making your wedding night special?

Today FH and I got talking about how we can make our wedding nights special. We are planning to stay in a hotel although it's a unnescisary cost since we live a 5 minute drive from where our reception is. But I was looking for something a little more special.

I've seen a few brides post about how they are waiting for marriage. They've either cut off sex already or plan to for a set amount of time before the big day.

I mentioned it to FH and he didn't seem to hate the idea. When I asked him how long he could wait, he replied with 1 month. We pinky swore on it and now as of April 14th, 2011 we will give up sex until our wedding night.

But now that we've planned to do that I want it to be even more special.

I'm thinking I will buy a new lingerie set for the night. One that is white and lacy and makes me feel like a bride.

I'm also thinking to get FH excited for our wedding night, the morning of the wedding I'll give him a book of boudoir photos of me. I'll be doing them DIY to save on cash. Hopefully I can talk someone into being a photographer for me or it will just be me and the camera.

So my question to you girls: What are you doing to make your wedding night special? Are you waiting? Doing boudoir photos? All of the above?
fairytalebride's Blue wedding
 |  Toronto, ON, Canada  |  09/06/2010  | 
yup we holding off too i alreday talk to him and he said it was fine, also bookin into a hotel and getting some nice white lingerie something special, Im also goin to book a photo shoot to make him a boudoit album which i will be sending to his room the morning of the wedding lol! so yeah gotta keep it special
sjsbride's Blue wedding
 |  Terre haute, IN, USA  |  09/06/2010  | 
my FH and i haven't had sex at all yet. so that will be special enough. but i plan on getting some cute lingerie and also maybe do a diy boudoir shoot too.
hannikay's Pink wedding
 |  Melbourne, Andorra la vella, Australia  |  09/06/2010  | 
We haven't had sex at all either, so it's going to be one special night! I will get something cute to wear but not going to buy anything too expensive coz I doubt it will stay on for long, lol. :)
ammybride's Yellow wedding
 |  Durban, Canillo, South africa  |  09/06/2010  | 
Oh Boy, are we suppose to plan something special for the night??? Thanks for the heads up.....didnt even think past wedding day...lol
annamarie's Blue wedding
 |  Brockville, ON, Canada  |  09/07/2010  | 
Ammybride: I only just started thinking past the wedding day. Its been the past week we've been talking about the wedding night and honeymoon.

I don't think you have to make it special if it isn't important to you. In the end, its your day you can do whatever the heck you want.

sjsbride and hannikay: That's AWESOME. The closer I'm getting the my big day the more I wish I'd saved myself. But when I was younger it matter to me.
ammybride's Yellow wedding
 |  Durban, Canillo, South africa  |  09/07/2010  | 
I think its a great .....will chat with FH about it tonight.
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Tanya
 |  Elizabeth, Ordino, Australia  |  09/07/2010  | 
Well, at least you won't lose much sleep on your wedding night the whole thing will be over in a flash ; ) .........
deneanrae's Blue wedding
 |  Red deer, AB, Canada  |  09/07/2010  | 
its awesome to plan something special! best of luck. I bought the cutest lingerie for our wedding night but after being sooooooooooooooooooo exhausted we just got to the dirty and i couldnt fathom spending more effort to put on lingerie lol. not the most romantic of nights. save it for the second night! thats when it was better!
kittyvenglish's Orange wedding
 |  Wainwright, AB, Canada  |  09/09/2010  | 
holding off!? My FH would never go for that. But we may be so busy that'll it'll happen that way.

We are only about 5 min away from our Reception Hall too. However we will be getting a hotel in the honeymoon suite of course and doing all that' romantic lovey dovey stuff.

And of course Lingerie is a MUST! (something he'll enjoy! Something you'll love wearing!)
I also did a Boudior shoot recently. Very FUN! And FH LOVED them.

Great ideas!
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