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04/16/2009
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Wedding Website!
from The Knot!
http://www.theknot.com/ourwedding/RebeccaSheasley&JaredBridge

It's a work in progress.........but what do you think so far?
04/16/2009
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Survey
Compliments of princess320842's
How long did you date before you got engaged?
one month shy of two years

Did you get the ring you wanted?
my ring is perfect for me, and i didn't even pick it out! he used my grandmother's diamond in the most beautiful setting :)

Was the proposal a complete surprise?
it was completely a surprise, I had no idea what was coming!

Do you wish you had a bigger/smaller diamond? If so How big or small?
like I said, my ring is perfect for me and it's special with my grandmother's diamond....

Did you cry when he proposed?
of course, it took me like 5 minutes to finally say yes!

Was the proposal romantic or creative?
it was both <3

Where do you want to go for your honeymoon?
We are going to Italy!!!

Are you buying his wedding band for him?
we've had a joint bank account for a few years now, so I guess we both kinda paid for our bands

Have you gone over your original wedding budget?
I didn't really have a set budget, my parents are paying and are willing to give me anything I want.....I'm a lucky girl!

What day of the year will your wedding be?
October 10, 2009, a saturday

What kind of weather?
hopefully not raining

Inside or outside?
Inside

Church/justice of the peace/other?
the church that my grandpa preached at for 30 years....

How many people will be there?
Guest list is about 220

Time of day?
3pm ceremony, 5pm reception

Any kind of theme?
everything is Fall themed

How many bridesmaids?
6 bridesmaids, 2 jr. bridesmaids, and 2 flower girls :)

What kind of cake/what will it look like?
white cake with raspberry filling, 4 tiers, bottom tier square and top three tiers round, silk leaves all over

Where will you have the reception?
The Genesee River Restaurant and Reception Center

What kind of dress will you have/color/material?
B-E-A-Utiful gown with lots of beading!

What kind of flowers in your bouquet?
No clue, something fall-like.....going to meet with the florist soon

Kind of engagement ring?
check out my page ;)

Kind of wedding bands?
both white gold, his has some detail and mine is a curved band with deamonds

How will you wear your hair?
not sure yet, we're gonna play

Who will be important to be there?
everyone, otherwise why would we invite them?

Will the reception be big or small?
pretty big, sit down dinner and all the works

What will the groom wear?
black tux with white tie and vest....

How long on Honeymoon?
18 days traveling through Italy!

What will you do?
drink wine, see the sights, and enjoy my much needed vacation with my new husband :)

Will it be modest or costly?
costly......but not as much as we expected!

How old will you and the groom be?
I will be 25 and he will be 24

How long will you be engaged before you get married?
2 1/2 years

Live together before or wait till married?
we've lived together for like 3 years......we have a house together

Take a long time to plan the wedding or will it be simple?
long time......long engagement!

Will you do it yourself or with family or hire someone to plan the wedding?
My mom and I are doing a pretty good job, Jared helps too

Will you write your own vows or use something pre-made?
I will be a mess as it is, so there is no way I could write my own vows....
04/16/2009
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Wedding Cake
We picked out our cake!
It is going to be somewhat like this picture :)

It will have four tiers, the bottom tier will be square and the three top layers will be round. This was a compromise because I wanted square and Jared wanted round! The lady is going to draw leaves into the frosting, and then we will add silk leaves to decorate it. It will be white cake with raspberry filling, and a buttercream frosting.

What do you think?? I love it!!!!!!
04/15/2009
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Updates
Haven't been on in awhile.....
So I've been busy working on wedding stuff, but haven't had a chance to update my blog in awhile. Aside from wedding planning, I am now down to the last 5-6 classes until I graduate! I will now graduate on September 21st with a BA in Psychology!!!

Now, other than our recent stressful changing of the reception site (see previous post), we have been somewhat busy with wedding plans.

Invitations: they were done just before we found out about Swain.....so now they have to be completely redone! The people making them, family friends, are sure that they can be fixed without ruining them. Hopefully that all works out!

Bridesmaids Dresses: 4 out of 6 dresses have been ordered.....having a little problem with two of my bridesmaids who haven't ordered them yet and are now ignoring my attempts at communication. Flower girls dresses have just come in, and we have already picked up the Jr. Bridesmaids dresses. My dress also has been picked up :)

We have finished 17 of our centerpieces, we have the makings of the rest of them and will be trying to get them done asap. Now that our reception site has changed, we are fortunate to be able to invite more people that originally could not fit, so we are probably going to need a few more on top of that......

We have booked an awesome photographer! One of Jared's college friends' father is a photographer, and we have booked him at the mere price of $1600! Much more than our budget in the beginning, but I want to have the best pictures from my wedding day!

We have begun to purchase our bridal party gifts, which I will not name here in case any of those people read this blog :)

We have picked out a lot of things to order online, and will be doing so soon! I am getting so excited for the day to come!
04/15/2009
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Reception Site Closing?!?!?!?!?!
6 months until the wedding!
Jared got a call from the sales guy from our reception site a few weeks ago. He said "I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but Swain is closing." Swain is a ski resort near us and our reception was going to be in the lodge restaurant upstairs. Perfect scene for my fall wedding. Apparently the owner wants to sell the whole place, so they are cancelling any plans that were booked for the rest of this year. I HAD NO SITE FOR MY RECEPTION!!!!! This has been booked for like a year now, deposit paid, decorations started based on the room.

So Jared called me at work, and of course I became an emotional mess. Jared immediately called around for a different place, and luckily a place was free for our date. We met with the lady from this new place and booked it asap! So now we have a reception site again; it's a little more pricey but well worth it!
01/25/2009
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01/18/2009
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Music
Booked a String Quartet!
So my FMIL has offered to pay for me to have a string quartet play my ceremony music. My gma is an organist for the church, but I want her to be able to enjoy my wedding and be a part of it......so I went with a different idea. I love it! I love classical music, and they will play anything I want them to. They are $400 our of Rochester, NY, and will play 45 mins before ceremony starts up until the last person leaves the church! I am so excited!
01/16/2009
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Wedding Dress
Shopping 12-20-08
I found my dress!!!!!


So it's the halter one, the one that has the most pictures! I can't get the captions to come up...hmm.....the pics are numbered 21-25 of my dress......

What do you think? It's completely different from what I thought I wanted!


*The one I am getting is the Halter top dress......pics numbered 21-25. It won't let me "manage photos and captions!"
12/11/2008
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Taste Testing
Yummy food!
So we went to our reception site the other night to do a taste test for our reception food. Jared, his mom, my mom, and myself went over for the tasting. I was expecting bite-sized pieces of each type of meat......not so much what we got! The coordinator that we have been working with (he's awesome!) brought out 4 huge plates filled with food to start, and then told us that he had 4 more plates in the kitchen! We tried:
1. Salmon
2. Steak with Mushrooms
3. Prime Rib with fried onions
4. Cheese Tortellini in an Alfredo sauce with mushrooms and asparagus
5. Pork with some kind of sauce
6. Chicken with spinach and roma tomatoes in a sauce
7. Lamb with mashed potatoes
8. Pecan-crusted Tilapia

It was an amazing spread of food. We liked most of it. None of us cared for the salmon, but that's because none of us like it. Nobody liked the chicken either........the pork was okay, but the lamb wasn't for me. I don't like Prime Rib, so I didn't care for that........

We had to base our decisions on what my father might eat, since he is paying :) Also, there are items available that we did not try, but can try anytime we want to before we make a decision. So far, from the results of the taste-test and the items available on the menu, we are going to choose 3 entrees for our dinner buffet, which includes two side dishes, bread, and salad. Our entrees (as of now) will be the Steak (we are going to ask for the fried onions instead of mushrooms), the Cheese Tortellini in Alfredo sauce with mushrooms and asparagus, and the Chicken Wellington from the menu. We may have to have another taste test for that one :)

Also, for the children in attendance.......they will offer Chicken Fingers, Macaroni and Cheese, and Mozzarella Sticks!!
11/07/2008
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I got a promotion!!
Sorry, not wedding related!
So I was just offered the Family Services Behavior Specialist position in my agency! This is a significant raise in salary and pretty much secures my career with the agency that I currently work for! I am so excited and wanted to share my good news!

*The pic to the left is my nephew. My sister sent me this pic on my cell phone when I told her that I got the job. She told Ryan to say "Woo Hoo!" for Auntie Becky and he did!

beccalind22

3 years since wedding
Becky
Jared
Oct 10, 2009
Dansville, New York, United States
United Methodist Church
Genesee River Restaurant
Bucci
Orange
By the time we get married, we will be engaged for 2 1/2 years! It's been such a long engagement already but we are able to plan everything slowly and without much stress....should be a beautiful ceremony and the best day of my life!
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