07/02/2010
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Does your FH read your blog?

I ask this because I see alot of you ladies posting pictures of your dresses etc... Also, sometimes very personal details get thrown out there that maybe FH's might not want shared.

Because of this, when I started posting, I didn't tell Dave. But I sort of felt like I was talking behind his back or cheating on him in a way -- maybe because I was excited about something and not sharing it with him. He's since found out on his own (oops) and solved my Do-I-Tell-Him-Dilemma. Instead of thinking I'm a big nerd - like I thought he might- he thinks it's cute and shows him how excited I am. Love u hun ;)

So, does your FH read your blog?
If so, what does he think?
If not, how come?
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soon2beachan's Pink wedding
soon2beachan
 |  Kamloops, BC, Canada  |  07/02/2010  | 
No!  There are pictures of my dress and other little surprises for his so I forbid it!  That being said he does know it exists and pretty much everything I post are things we've talked about so I don't feel like I'm going behind his back.
tashasita's Purple wedding
tashasita
 |  Stoney creek, ON, Canada  |  07/02/2010  | 
No, but he definitely knows about it and sometimes reads what I show him. He loves it when someone comments about him lol. I show him those. :)

I don't want him to know things I have planned for him, and also that I disclose how sweet he is lol. He may be embarassed. ;)
amandasoontobemoury's Pink wedding
amandasoontobemoury
 |  Tacoma, WA, USA  |  07/02/2010  | 
Mine does not, but he knows I have it :) I think secretly he wants to be surprised when he sees my dress and hair style for the first time :)
princessfortheday's Purple wedding
princessfortheday
 |  Toronto, ON, Canada  |  07/02/2010  | 
My FH knows that I write a blog but I asked him not to read it just in case it spoils a surprise.  I do show him a lot of your inspirational ideas from this site.  WBC has given us so many ideas!
acowleysoontobe's Pink wedding
acowleysoontobe
 |  Toronto, ON, Canada  |  07/02/2010  | 
I think I am the only girl on this site that does! YES! I actually read every post out loud to Paul. It is my favourite thing about writing it :) I like keeping him in the loop on what I am finding, feeling and thinking. He would never say "I love it!" or "Please read me your blog!", but when I do, he laughs or makes comments. I want to share everything about this process with him. I haven't put any pics of my dress up, as I don't want anyone to see what it looks like before I wear it, but he can see everything else :)
fabulousbride2011's Blue wedding
fabulousbride2011
 |  Washington, DC, USA  |  07/02/2010  | 
No he don't read my blog or even go on this site
alyle0824's Pink wedding
alyle0824
 |  Decatur, AL, USA  |  07/02/2010  | 
My FH has no idea of WBC:) This is a place were I can share, vent & get some feedback from someone going through some of the same things I am. If he does find out ...oh well I have not posted anything he cannot see:)
fairytalebride's Blue wedding
fairytalebride
 |  Toronto, ON, Canada  |  07/02/2010  | 
Nope he doesnt, he knows and i show him certain things but hes good about that he gives me my space i give him his, I guess for this whole wedding planning thing hes glad i have a place to vent and post about it lol! Hes great with listening to ideas and stuff and giving me ideas too but he would never look at my blog out of curiousty hes just not like that lol!
chelsea11's Red wedding
chelsea11
 |  Calgary, AB, Canada  |  07/02/2010  | 
Mine doesnt, but he knows Im ALWAYS on here!
I will show him pictures, and ask if he thinks we can do something like that, things like that!
He knows hes more then welcome to read it if he wants to, but I dont think he really cares that much to go in and read. He has his comics to read! :)
hannikay's Pink wedding
hannikay
 |  Melbourne, Andorra la vella, Australia  |  07/02/2010  | 
I often show FH other brides blogs to say, "Do you like this, would you like to do it this way too or have this at the wedding?" etc etc. But he doesn't go on here to snoop, and I let him watch me blog sometimes but I had to say once, "Just turn away for a min while I scroll past my dress picture".

So we have good communication going, no one is going to get offended or think we are doing things behind each others back.
jennyfur's Black wedding
jennyfur
 |  Mississauga, ON, Canada  |  07/06/2010  | 
no FH has not read my blog, I've showed him a few times, but I have pix of my dress, my hair ideas, etc. So no way is he allowed to look at it, unless I'm there to supervise!  ha
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