brandyntravi's Pink wedding

So I believe I mentioned in my last post that I have decided to put my best (male) friend, Carl, in my wedding party. I call him my "bridesman"!


My question is....how bad is it that I am putting him in the same pink as my girls. He is still going to be in a black tux obviously but I am going to have him wear both a pink vest and tie (like the color shown). Now Carl said he's fine with it but Trav laughed at me and told me he couldn't believe I was going to make Carl wear bright pink. See the dad's are gonna be in pink too but it's a pastel pale pink. I dunno...I was juz curious if any of you other gals have run into this scenario.


Maybe I'll have to make Carl's tie black like the groomsmen. Maybe then he won't look so "pink". But I really would rather him match my girls as much as I can. What do you girls think?? All pink...pink w/black tie or no pink at all and put him in green like the groomsmen???