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Im stressed!!!!!! But the show will go on!

Ugh! dik what to do guys, im being confronted with alot of things, well for starters, my fiance family doesnt want us to get married on a cruise ship they are very upset that we are doin it. On the other hand my fam is excited and he is stuck in between the two hes down for the wedding, but he wants his ppl to be there, they told him that they cant afford a $199 4 day cruise, me personally I feel that they can they are just making up an excuse to try get me upset because of the fact that we continually go back and forth, they trying to get us to have a a ceremony here but thats not wat i want to do. So we came up with a happy medium, we have our cruise wedding and afterwards do something here, but in order for that to happen they are going to have to put in on it, because seeing how this isnt wat i want to do they will have to help plan and pay for it, because I feel this is my day and if u cant come up with $199 in 16 mos but u can afford other miscellaneous items that cost more, way more than the cruise than you dont deserve to go. On top of that me and my sister are still beefing with his aunts and cousin and I told him that they are not invited and he is protesting that he wants them to come, but I wont have this second wedding if they come because my entire family is going to be there and his entire family will be there and I dont want any fighting at my wedding. Maybe they can catch our vowel re-newal on the 7 day cruise. thats the only thing i can tell them is start saveing up for our 10 yr vow re- newal

Sorry for the stress girlie and I dont get it either $199 is not bad at all and they have time to come up with that money so truly that doesnt make any since for them to say they can afford $199 for a cruise altimately it is you and your fiances wedding and the way you want it should go the way you want it not the way they want it so honestly i dont blame you for making them pay for the second one when you come back same goes with not wanting with his aunts and cousin there if they are going to start a fight then they dont need to be there seriously i wouldnt want them there either hope i could help but dont sweat it girlie it will all come together and im sure it is going to be a beautiful day :) it will all be worth it in the end

LMBO girlllll u sound like me but i dont have problems with my ex but if i did i would be talking like you. Its your day and quite frankly anybody that dont want to come aint gotta, point blank period. You either come up with the $200 to go on the cruise or miss ya son wedding! Dont give them any other option especially since u beefing with his folks.

I agree, they really don't want to go or they would come up w/ the money. Plain and simple. So forget about it and plan you day the way you want. If his fam brings nothing but drama with them, then I understand why you don't want them there. But since ur FH wants them, just send out the invites and let it be. If they plan something here after, good, if not, good. :)

And I wouldn't keep bringing it up to them either. I would only talk about it w/ your FH and that's it. Then when/if they ask you what are you planning,say we are still in the process of planning and we'll let you know once the plans are final.