07/28/2012
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Everything is not going as planned, im strongly thinking about giving up!

Well wbc ladies i need some advice, ever since ive set foot on my first cruise ive always wanted to get married on a cruise ship, its the cheapest route to go as well, but im saving and saving and because im travelling long distances to school and work each day ive been going into the wedding account for gas and now i have nothing Ive asked my fh to give me sumthing on it and he says he will but he never does im basically paying for it alone and i cant do it alone he makes way more money than me and last week we both agreed on putting some money into the wedding account but instead he bought a $300 car radio and he claims next time he got me, im at my wits end because ive been planning this since may and everytime i have some money its from me i personally feel that hes dodging me because he kno his family wont be able to attend, well sum of them, and now he accidently did sum damage to his company car and now he owe them $500 but they will be taking them out in segments, so now that will be the new excuse on y i cant get any money for the wedding, im pretty much over it, i just want to cry my eyes out, because i have no one to help me and i feel if no one else care then y should i, idk im jus seriously stressed out i think imma cancel it until i get a better support system, but i already told him if i dont get married on a cruise im not getting married at all... i need sum advice plz
mz2handgrip's Blue wedding
 |  Milwaukee, WI, USA  |  07/29/2012  | 
I think you need to sit him down and really tell him how you feel and come up with a better savings plan. Make it clear exactly what you shared with us that is what you want and your not willing to compromise. Make sure to ask him if postponing the wedding is reasonable.  Keep praying on it and it will workout.
breezy1656's Blue wedding
 |  Stone mountain, GA, USA  |  07/29/2012  | 
everytime i talk to him he thinks im trying to argue and it ends in an arguement and he kno all of this but its not going nowhere, and he suggested postponeing the wedding, i decided to save wat i can and ill start back planning when he chips in.
ourwedding13's Purple wedding
 |  Bolingbrook, IL, USA  |  07/30/2012  | 
It sounds like he expects you to get everything together yourself. Are you usually the planner of everything on a day to day basis? Is so then he's probably just used to it. I agree, you should save what you can and try not to touch it anymore. Don't even think you have it. IT's really easy to go straight to that fund when emergencies come up so, so you have to be strong! Good Luck!
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