06/02/2010
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Wedding Sickness:Stressed Out

When I start thinking of my wedding and details I drive myself CRAZY!
Second guessing myself at everything. FH is no help, he is over the road and dont get much input from him til he gets home which is 2-3 months at a time. When I get so stressed out I feel so sick to my stomach. I search and search the web at least everyday looking for different ideas. My problem is that I LOVE EVERYTHING!!
How can planning a wedding be so HARD!? I love the Pink/Gold but now I am thinking Red/Gold!! Just when I think I know what I want I start thinking about something else...I drive myself NUTTS! Has anyone else experienced this??










sweetlatina's Purple wedding
 |  West haven, CT, USA  |  06/02/2010  | 
Girl, I feel ya! I was going through the same thing. It's hard to stick to one thing when there are so many other great things out there. Just make sure your colors will work  with your reception venue.
browncurls's Blue wedding
 |  Hudson, FL, USA  |  06/02/2010  | 
Thanks SweetLatina!! It does, its just so hard!!  I mean everything. Really the only feedback I get is on here. My sister likes the pink and gold but I always get its your wedding, do what you want.  I know she means that in a good way but I am a visual type of girl.I need to see it than I would know if its what I like!! I just dont want to like it I want to LOVE it! Thats my problem.
summerbride2010's Black wedding
 |  Winston salem, NC, USA  |  06/02/2010  | 
Hey..your a Bride hunny!  That's what we do...wind up Second guessing Everything!!! that is sooo me. You are not alone (singing that in my Michael Jackson voice..LOL).  Just try not to second guess everything.  Once you make a decision, mark it off your list and DON"T turn back.  It will save you a lot of time and sanity!!...hope this helps hun??
browncurls's Blue wedding
 |  Hudson, FL, USA  |  06/02/2010  | 
Thanks summerbride2010...Thats what my sister says to. Once I stick with something..stick to it! I just don't want my wedding to be cheesy or talked about in a bad way..you know what I mean.I love that Micheal Jackson song...so needed it! Thanks MA!
summerbride2010's Black wedding
 |  Winston salem, NC, USA  |  06/02/2010  | 
O your more than welcomed sweetie!! And I know exactly what you are talking about with the "cheesy" and not wanting to be talked about!  That's me too...and that's what makes me go back to second guess.  You just want it to be the BEST and you want the guest to LOVE it!  Believe you me chica!!..I understand!..LOL
gratefulbride's Blue wedding
 |  Cornelius, NC, USA  |  06/02/2010  | 
Girl, I feel ya.  It is hard to really commit to one thing when there are so many other great things to sift through.  Just keep in mind that a ton of us here have changed our colors & ideas, & even themes, so it is normal for you to feel the way you do.   You will make the right decision, & what helped me was to split up all of my likes into different areas.  For example:

I love tiffany blue & red, but got away from doing it for the entire wedding, so we did that color scheme for my bridal shower last year.

I like Damask alot, but had a hard time of exactly where to put it without it being too much, so I am planning to use it more at the rehearsal dinner.

These are just small ideas, but try to think of many different ways to use some of the things you are loving, without going overboard.  And when you make a decision, stick with it.  If you continue to research or look at the items that you already have purchased or made up your mind over, you will eventually talk yourself out of it.
gratefulbride's Blue wedding
 |  Cornelius, NC, USA  |  06/02/2010  | 
And dont make yourself sick girl!  Just take a deep breath & keep in mind that if you collect all these fabulous ideas without using them all, it is still OK.  You may end up helping another bride or friend with some of the ideas you've collected.  Just keep taking notes, & taking pics, but give yourself breaks & proper YOU time.
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browncurls
 |  Hudson, FL, USA  |  06/03/2010  | 
@grateful bride you are so right!! WORD!!!!lol
sweetlatina's Purple wedding
 |  West haven, CT, USA  |  06/03/2010  | 
Very well said grateful bride! You are so right!! :)
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