01/10/2012
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I NEED YOUR HELP!!!!
Hello WBC Brides!!!!

I have a question: I have three girls from a past relationship. My kids family ( on their dad side) want to attend the wedding. My FH have met the kids grandparents, great-aunt and uncle. We talked about them attending and my FH said it was ok. But the rest of the family wants to attend as well like their cousins and aunts and uncle. My kids grandmother want to help out with the wedding like decorations. She said she would buy my card box that is $100. She just want to be apart in everything.

Question is How do I uninvite them?

I dont want to hurt anyone feelings or be mean about it.

Please Help!!!!!
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hismrsb's Purple wedding
hismrsb
 |  Mississauga, ON, Canada  |  01/10/2012  | 
It's always a sticky situation when you want to un-invite someone... but why do you want to un-intive them?
mrsgnesda's Purple wedding
mrsgnesda
 |  Garfield, NJ, USA  |  01/10/2012  | 
Do you plan on inviting any of them? I would just tell them you can only afford to have so many people and that you don't want to make it awkward for your FHubby and his family by having your ex's family there.
ourrenewalsagain's Pink wedding
ourrenewalsagain
 |  North highlands, CA, USA  |  01/10/2012  | 
Yikes! That is a sticky situation...To keep it simple and just your new immediate family, I would univite them as follows:

I really appreciate your thoughts and energy to help out. Due to the small guest list, your services and help will not be needed. I really really appreciate your helpful energy to our wedding.

                                                 OR

I'm so sorry, we are doing just the intermediate family only. Since we are having a small wedding, please understand that I/we really appreciate your help with wanting to decorate, etc.

                                                  OR
Due to limited seating, I'm sorry to have to express that we are only having intermediate family only. I hope that you understand, we only have limited seating.
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charlieangle
 |  Kenosha, WI, USA  |  01/10/2012  | 
Thanks Ladies for you comments.
justmeandhim's Purple wedding
justmeandhim
 |  Glendale, AZ, USA  |  01/11/2012  | 
oh no!!! I don't even know how you would go about doing that......
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