~Our Renewals~ Hey my WBC family! I've been a little hush- hush lately. Our 14th wedding ann...
Ok so away from the planning just for a minute. I dated a Danish guy some years ago who was like my first love *aaaww* yah i thought we could work, was so inlove with him and all but one day to cut a long story short he decided to break up with me, didnt even have the guts to tell me to my face instead told me sister who was his friend as well.
It took a LOT for me to get over him, coming back to Africa was a blessing because it made things easier for me but the craziest thing is i always somehow thought of him. I met my Fiancée in 2007 and i fell so much inlove and i grow deeper inlove with him every single day without a shadow of doubt. I'm blessed and happy to be getting married to a man who could love me in such a way that i cant even understand, spending the rest of my life with him is all i want to do and WONT trade it for anything else in this world.
During the week i got a friend request on Facebook from my ex Danish boyfriend. was hesitant at first but knowing that I've gotten over him and i'm happier now i accepted, seeing that he is in a serious relationship made things even better for me.
So one day when i was online, he starts congratulating me on my engagement, he goes further on to remind me of the times we had, i closed the discussion and talked about something else but he went on and on and on and on....and then he said "you know if you get married you and i will never happen"... this got me really mad and i gave him a piece of my mind!!!!
having done this....he still got me thinking....it really took a lot for me to get over him.....i think i really loved him...many years later he sometimes crosses my mind but i have found a better love and thats what put me straight...
if you ever find yourself a situation like this, before you think about how life could have been if you were still together with your ex please think about your present life and how wonderful it is, how it is that you have found someone who wants to spend forever with you.....you are blessed please dont let anything shift your focus, you are only a few years, a few months, a few days, a few hours, a few minutes, a few seconds from saying I DO to the beginning of forever :)