04/13/2011
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Groomsmen Horror
I Dont Want Him In It!

Theres one particular person I definately dont want in our wedding! Im not even sure if I want him at our reception! I'm not a Bridzilla!! My fiance's friend....I don't like him.

The guy used to try and get my number every morning. Then my fiance introduced us and I was like NOOOOOOOOOOO, how did they even meet? The guy was like, THATS your woman? I never told my fiance and that was in 2008.

The guy is very rude and when he drinks...which is all the time, he gets in a fighting mood. He is 7ft tall and thinks he can beat everybody. I don't want him to get drunk and pick fights with my family and friends.

My fiance and the guy are so opposite! My Snuggle Bunny doesn't even drink. I don't want him to ruin our day! How do I tell him?
savagehart's Black wedding
 |  Rocklin, CA, USA  |  04/14/2011  | 
Just tell him that you have major issues with the dude and you do not want him there on your day. Don't make a huge deal, and don't offer up the details unless your FH starts asking lots of questions.
classybride's Blue wedding
 |  Houston, TX, USA  |  04/14/2011  | 
Ok, thank you. I'm not even sure when or how to bring it up though. I was thinking of either asking him who all he wants in it, just to see if he was going to mention him, or just come out with it.
ammyrsa's Yellow wedding
 |  Durban, 02, South africa  |  04/15/2011  | 
Hey gal, I feel your pain....I think keep talking about his groomsmen and talk about an ideal person and behaviour and then in passing make a the 'not wanted ' an example of the behaviour you would like to avoid because of potential disaster
classybride's Blue wedding
 |  Washington, DC, USA  |  04/15/2011  | 
Eww, he was over here yesturday! He lookd done and it was still day time. My fh said a long time ago that he looks out for him because his family isn't...ooooh well. He isnt a child, he's in his twenties! I told a told his friend bluntly that I didn't like him in front of my fh a fewmonths ago. So it's no secret, I just don't.....
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