colinsmama's Blue wedding

I didn't find this website until I was googling peach and coral roses and saw it on someone's blog. So this is a last minute blog even though I have a Blogger. No one reads that anyways.

So I feel like I'm being absolutely ridiculous by doing everything so last minute such as not having a florist yet?! I was thinking about doing the flowers myself but I still want to get an ideal estimate on what they will cost. I'm doing all roses. I ideally wanted to do calla lilies but they're out of my budget and we're broke anyhow. Okay, not broke as in no jobs broke but just wisely using the money. We just found out videographer yesterday night...good grief! I ideally didn't want a videographer because who's going to watch the video after the wedding? I definitely am NOT going to be watching it but I figured I should for my relatives back in Vietnam and Chris' relatives back in the Philippines.

Here are the things I haven't done yet:
- Find a florist or actually find flowers
- Order wedding favors
- Alterations
- Bridesmaids gifts
- Bridal shower
- Bachelorette party
- Picking out the menu for the reception
- Found my evening gown
- Find a hair stylist

There might be some other small things but I can't think of it right now. Actually, you can scratch the bridal shower and bachelorette party. Even though my sister offered to throw me a bridal shower, there's no point or to me there's no point. I definitely don't want a bachlorette party but if one is thrown in my honor, I just want a nice quiet evening to just sit, relax, and catch up with my bridesmaids. Does anyone else feel this way as well?

By the way, I'm turning 21 here in a couple of weeks and my fiance just turned 25. We also have a son who is 18 months which is why I considered not doing anything as far as "going out and partying it up" for my showers. I just want to relax for once. :)