Yes this is my inspiration... Venting. I hope that the young lady that I am talking about reads this post. She most likely will to see if I will fail at my renew of vows planning. Yes thats how some ladies are because I am surely checking out her post every chance I can in fact when she writes something down it goes to my e-mail. Shallow, hey I have been called worse!!!!!!
I want to start by saying that ladies we are all grown. (remember I am the mother of 3 boys, a 17, 15, and a 10 year old) I can truly say that I have been through some things. Do not put a post down for all to see and someone gives a comment and you dont like what the comment says, you erase the comment and have something rude to say without keeping the comment for all to see. I would have kept the comment up even if I did not agree because it may not have been good advice for what you are going through but it could have helped someone else. The comment was not ugly, I was just letting you know that when you are in a relationship it is not just one person involved. I dont want any women to cater to her husband to the point that she does not please herself. Why would you want to go to school for 4 years extra after the 12 that you already have done, only to not get a JOB but to be a stay at home mommy-just because that is what your HUSBAND wants you to do. You already said that you wanted to land a great job, and make some decent money, before you have children, but then change it because your HUSBAND does not want you to work. I have been through that where my man friend wanted me to not work. So you have no job, no money. no say on where and what you are doing with money, and oh and no mind for your ownself. Then when you break up you have to start from the bottom of the barrel/ getting a diploma or GED, working at Micky D's, or cleaning some disgusting hotel room behind some nasty people. (No I am not knocking anyones job but I sure would not be trying to be a nurse if I did not have too, but that is all I know.)
Do not ever set your self up for failure. And always remember that everyone who gives advice may have been through some things.
Even though I dont agree on everything, I dont think that I know everything, and cant listen to all advice.
