This is cplusm's Green Wedding!

Ok so just a quick question out there how many of you would like to receive chocolate covered strawberries on these cute little spoons at each place setting? They totally match with the Swish tea cup sets Im giving everyone plus I think they could double as a teabag holder. I was thinking of putting a damask symbol on the spoon part and our monograms on the handle...

Ok come on Im like any other parent out there I just couldnt resist adding a picture of the in my opinion the cutest ring bear ever (hehehe I could be a little bias but I cant help it =P) We have OBVIOUSLY decided to have our now 4 year old son (he will be 5 at the wedding) be our ringbear. The only question I have is that we also have 2 nephews (one on my side and one on his side) that we want to include in the wedding... at the time of the wedding both will about 7 what are some neat ways we could include them in the wedding... we were thinking of Junior groomsmen or maybe even ushers or something...

Ok so I am stuck yet again (geeze and I thought this wedding planning would be easy =P) I Love all three cakes (the last one I want done in black and white instead of blue and brown) Which one seems more unique? Im finding it really difficult to because it seems like everything has already been done before and I want my wedding to be unique (as Im sure every other bride out there does). My goal is to have guest leave and say wow how amazing was that Ive never seen that done before and I love it!

Ok so I think that I have decided on our wedding invitations... Im just afraid that these may be to generic. What your thoughts?

Sorry about the pics ahaha they were the best ones that showed my eyes with makeup (hehehe me and my son always play around with the web cam ahaha) :p anyways for my wedding I want to have Dramatic eyes. Im not sure if I should get my bestfriend to do my makeup to save money or opt to have it professionally done... what are other doing? Does anyone have any ideas for products that I can use to really emphasize my eyes?

Ive been racking my brain trying to figure out a really great way to remember those who are no longer with us at the wedding. My Brother Dwayne passed away when I was 7 (he was 18). I want to find some unique way to incorporate him into the wedding without making everyone sad. I came across the idea of attaching his picture to my bouquet. Are other B2B's doing similar things? What are your thoughts?

Ok so I found the items needed to make these Bath Tea Bags

http://www.save-on-crafts.com/musbagpacof1.html

I Love them so much and it would only cost me $50 to make 80 of these, but I have already decided on making up the tea gift boxes would it clash to also add one of these in a pillow box at each place setting instead of the eclaires or should I just use them as favours at the Bridal shower?

For the Reception Tables I am going to have White Table Cloths with Black overlays. On each Table there will be a Black on White Damask patterned runner. For centrepieces we've chosen a simple lily arrangement with black candles. At the entry way there will be Two Trees decorated with white lights. I also wanna have Paper Lanterns hanging from the ceiling. Does anyone have any other suggestions?

Ok so this is what Ive decided for Bridesmaid dresses. Im kinda going with the idea of the little black dress. I like how simple this dress is and the fact that they can wear them again if they choose to.

Ok so after looking at thousands of dresses (as Im sure all of you have done) I've finally cut the selection down to 2 dresses!!! PLEASE tell me your opinions I wan something that is different and yet elegant, I am so stuck I love them BOTH!

Ok so we've actually set aside a larger portion than usual for the Favours as we feel that they are extremely important! Were having a smaller wedding of only about 75 guests therefore we were able to have all of the things we wanted to incorporate. What we are doing is making gift bags for everyone to be hung on the back of the chairs. In the Gift bag there will be a "swish" teacup and saucer, a disposible tea stick filled with Loose leaf tea, and also one sugar cane sugar stick to sweeten the tea. At each place setting there will a gift box filled with homemade French butter cookies or homemade chocolate eclaires (we havent decided yet). Each Teacup will be Monogramed in black. What does everyone think of these gifts for favours? Would you like to recieve these at a wedidng or do you think its too boreing?