This is danelle0521's Purple Wedding!

I still cant believe the wedding has come and gone. But married life is good! Just wanted to post some pictures since we just got them yesterday. :). I think she did an amazing job! We only paid $300 for her. And she was the sweetest lady ever! There were some photos I wanted done that we just didnt get around to. I was soooooooo sick of taking pictures! Congrats to the future brides and good luck!

Finally our wedding has come and gone. All the stress, tears, arguments, hard times and of course the good times were more then worth it! All week we had nothing but rain! But after our rehearsal on friday we had a double rainbow. And our wedding day was warm and sunny! It was so ment to be. Of course there were things that went wrong and that drove me crazy, but it was all worth it! In the end I got what I wanted. And that was to marry my best friend, my true love. So to all the soon to be married brides out there. Remember you are going to cry, scream,and even feel like just giving up. But in the end it all worth it. Also REMEMBER THAT IT IS YOUR DAY! And no one elses! Good luck to all the future brides.

I can't believe we are already in the single digits! I'm sooo excited but soo stressed! I wish the drama was over but now that the bridal shower is done they are starting with the bachlorette party! I'm really ready just to hand over my wedding to everyone else and just let them do as they please and me and my fiance go elope somewhere! lol. But you know what? We are just letting it go in one ear and out the other! We're done caring. And it helps that he feels the same way. But anyway! I really can't wait! Now it seems like such a tease!

I could use some opinions. Personally I love it. I actually had one of my bridesmaids tell me it looks like Sh*t. Why would someone say something like that!? One it was a last minute trial, two my niece had played soccer so her hair was all yucky and 3 I didnt have all the hair pieces for them yet. So yes you can see the bobby pins and ponytail. However on the day of the wedding you will not see them! I thought it was elegant yet fun at the same time. She wants to something different and doesnt understand why I want all of them bm's to have the same hair. Does it really matter? Its MY wedding, Oh geez... I promise i'm not a bridezilla!

I know I'm not the only one having problems with my bridesmaids. I'm just getting a little sick of them making it their wedding. The best man is also doing it. He called my fiance heartless on fb for not inviting a cousin who he's never had a relationship with! No matter how much you put your foot down they seem to have a way of making you look wrong. We just lost a groomsman and one of my bm's (his sister ugh!) I guess wants to walk with a guy and just her instead of having her and my niece on one of the groomsmans arms, She wants my MOH to walk behind me and hold my train! Like really? One the walk isnt that long, and two I want my MOH to walk down the aisle with the best man. But nooo..... that just seems so wrong. Thankfully my fiance is also putting his foot down and saying things. And I like how they complain it cost sooo much money and they keep getting surprised with more and more cost. Well I dont know why that is. I sent them all a detailed email on about how much everything is going to cost. And I rounded up just incase. So its not my fault that they didnt save the money they were suppose to. And I sent it out back in Jan! I just dont understand why they have to make it about them. I got guilted into putting his sister in the wedding. Then she had a fit because her son isnt in the wedding. And she still has yet to get him something to wear for the wedding! We have our own sons. He can be in her wedding if she ever has one. I really can't wait for the wedding to be over. Then I wont have to worry about any of this! Sorry for the rant. Just had to get it out!

I've been debating on if I wanted to do table numbers cause obviously they are simple, or doing table names.Finally we decided to go with Old time romantic movies for table names. Kinda goes with our theme to. Which is pretty much elegant romance.

The movies are

Casablanca
Gone with the wind
Love is many splendored things
An affair to remember
Love story
Moon Struck
From here to eternity
It happened one night
The philadelphia story (he and his family is from philly. so this will be there table. I love that it makes it more personal!)
Pillow talk (we do this everynight!)
Shakespeare in love

Some are movies I love and some just describe us.

Does someone handle all of these emotions. My wedding is only 18 days away and I am on such an emotional rollercoaster! Im so happy but nervous and scared and stressed, I feel like I am going to explode! I guess it doesn't help that more suprises just keep popping up! But I really can't wait! Any suggestions on how to stay calm?

Our disk is finally in the mail with the rest! Our photographer is amazing! She doesn't waste any time. I can't wait to see the rest. But for now here is some :) I keep trying to put a caption in but it wont let me :(

So we are planning on getting our engagement photos done tomorrow. And we are planning to get them done at a park. But its suppose to rain :(. Anyone have any ideas of an inside place we could do. Something creative? I would just reschedule it but I babysit and the friend who I babysit for now is giving me a hard enough time because she is trouble finding someone to babysit her son. Though I gave her over a months notice for this reason so it wouldn't be a problem. But she waited till last minute! Ok ladies ready...... set..... go!

I can't wait to use this. Though I havent quite figured out how we are going to do this. I found this great site where you can have guests fill out pages instead of just signing there name in a book. I figured it would be alot more fun! And will also give them something to do while waiting for us to show up at the reception. I opted for the pages where you can put pictures in there. I'm thinking of having someone hand out the pages and take a picture of each couple on my digital camera. This way I can print them out and put them in. And since the pages have them put there names on them I should be able to match the pages up. But I thought this was a great idea! Something fun we can look back on after the wedding. Here is the link if anyone else is interested. And its not just for weddings!

http://www.guestbookstore.com/wedding.html