Im no comment expert nor am I popular on WBC, and heck ive had tons of posts that have got no comments! but its been trial and error and I have learnt over the months! I dont necessarily always follow my own advice but If I did im sure it would work haha. so I wanted to share
"my secret" with you all! Ive been on WBC for over a year and have
seen more then a dozen times the same post: Disapointed in WBC
brides/ no comments/ WBC pledge for commenting. ...or something
along those lines. This post is in no way directed towards anyone! nd apologies for being so long haha, ive been holding this in for a LONG time!
Here are the secrets I have found:
1) Your picture: you have to have one! plain and simple! dont expect
many if any comments without one, and when you get one it has to
catch peoples attention, so make sure it STANDS OUT. Think of this,
there is what? 40 posts that people can view at a time, chances are wewont stop and look at EVERY one, so when we see one with a funny or bold pic we stop and click (like window shopping). I keep a file on my computer titled WBC pics that ive collected over the last year that cover a variety of potential topics and emotions. Im always on the look for catchy pics I can use and google has become my best friend!
2) Your description: This also has to stand out! Along with your pic
this is one of the biggest things that will catch the window shopping
brides attention. Dont use something long or generic or boring (Keep
in mind when the post is displayed it will only show the first few
words). Using your name (like in third person) seems to be a big hit
too. Ive made jokes of this is the past but its the truth!! Just
look at any of the top brides pages, such as unpredictablebride or aimee114 etc..you know who you are haha.
3) Your topic: What is the purpose of you posting the post? Do you
want advice? do you want to share some advice? are you proud of a
recent DIY? do you have a question? do you need to rant? Your topic
generally has to be of interest to another bride. What has made the
top posts more then ever? shoes lol cause they are of general interest
to everyone! Voting seems to be popular too because its interactive! another tip: Dont use all capitals hahahaha
4) Your attitude: Postivitey for the win! I understand we all need to
vent! and Im right there with you sometimes haha. Although these seem to get the views every so often too if your generally postive and happy like Nidahl then you will get more comments and a good reputation! people will want to comment on your posts because your such a fun and nice person!
5) If you give comments, you'll get comments: this one is self explanatory
6) Always try to end the post with a question: The first and the
hardest method is, to make your posts more attractive so the bride
wont leave your post without leaving a comment. You may have the
traffic but you arnt necessarily getting the comments? thats a common
complaint! I think most of you have already noticed that most top
brides blogs posts contains a question at the end. Do you know why they are doing it? Its like a small invitation for the readers to leave a comment. So, try to end your post with a question
and let the
reader complete the post.
7) Time of day: The best time of day to post I have found is late
morning on a weekday, if your posting late at night or weekend you
will automatically have less comments...The posts are up for 24 hours
or until they are bumped so utilize your time well.
8) If at first you dont succeed...try again! I have had posts where I
get no comments....I generally deleate them and try agan at another
time. Maybe tweak it a bit and try to follow the above advice, and
that tends to work
9) dont worry so much about comments: I know this whole post is
focused on the secrets to getting more comments but you just have to
relax!!! Dont try so hard! This isnt a popularity contest! Its about
your wedding and you sharing your thoughts and feelings and hard work with others, almost like a journal or diary. I didnt take the pledge
for a reason, and it has nothing to do with me not wanting to comment
on others pages. I think I have a pretty good track record so im happy
with that! I got some of the best advice from a bride once that has
stuck with me: No one will care about your wedding as much as you do, let that one soak in haha.
So I wanted to open the post to you WBC brides (as im no expert by any means), Do you agree or not? and what advice do you have to add to help other brides out???
Also, if someone doesn't put any notes in their posts (I thought that's what blogging was...writing writing writing...) and it just has a pic I generally don't leave comments.
Great post girl!
I did not take the pledge either and I will tell you why...I also am honest (too honest). And my parents taught me if I cant say anything nice to keep my big mouth shut. LOL
You are soooo right...this is not a popularity contest. I actually wish WBC would take away the visit counter. That way it would become a non issue. Seriously...as long as a few ppl comment be happy. Not everyone who views the post needs to comment...and really you may be hurt by some of our truthful comments.
@Nidahl.... YES ALL CAPS IS A MAJOR DEAL BREAKER! LMAO
I myself don't get many comments but continue to go on.Yes we are here for the support of each other.I'm not always on the computer so what I try and do is go to "previous posts , "more questions"and "questions of the day".That kind of help me comment on what I missed.Hope this also will help u ladies out.
I agree they should get rid of the visit counter.. Seems to be a real sore spot. Also think that if a few ppl comment, it's really cool. Not just better than nothing but awesome that a couple people "get" you!
Also I gotta def agree that positivity attracts. Happiness attracts. We ALL have bad days but generally being happy and easy to be around draws people to you. Bees flock to honey not vinegar ha!
We can def share our stresses, not many people understand our stresses like another bride, but just try and generally be light-hearted.
Either way, this was a fab and uber true post girl!!!
The best anyone can do is if they want comments, leave them as well. I noticed most brides I comment on, comment in return and that's nice of them :)
Also, IMO it is nice to say thank you! If you get 1 comment or 200, always thank others for their opinions, advice or input.
The best part of your post was this:
"No one will care about your wedding as much as you do"
VERY TRUE!! (caps lol!)
I don't like how some have made this a big popularity contest. Honestly, I have 4 kids and a hectic life that's multiplied by planning this "event". I don't have time, nor do I tolerate childish BS. My teenage daughter fills that slot for me just fine lol!!
If you need that form of validation, maybe you shouldn't be here.
As the golden rule...
"do to others what you would want them to do to you"
TO add to your list --- to be honest if I see a bride complaining alot about not getting comments I tend to not really go to that brides page anymore ..because after a complaint like that I feel pressure to comment on things regardless of how I feel about them.. so I just avoid them altogether!! lol
Also, I find people comment more once your "visions" start taking shape.. not just random musings...
When I didnt have the support of anyone, I came here and asked questions and got advice, then in turn, I was totally addicted, giving my advice as well, on WBC, EVERYDAY!!!
I think other women followed my blog, as well as others, because it tells a story, everyone's does whether your blog is on the front page or not but, sometimes I see brides attempting to get a lot of recognition, instead of just planning their own wedding. I like your blog, its very interesting and It would keep me reading to the last post! Just keep in mind, the blog is for you! My advice to you and the other brides would be to not worry about others not commenting or what not, just let them be enjoy your wedding planning, up to the last day!
Danielle the DIVA!