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12/09/2008
 coord cake1 cake2 cake3 cake4 cake5 cake6        |
Met with Hotel Manager Today
....to set up details about the wedding
 I met with the Social Event Manager today at the Hotel, to set up the events of the wedding. It went well, I am glad I did this, she is very organized and even wanted some of the details that I dont have yet. She gave me a rough diagram of how everything will be set up on the day, and gave me some info on someone who can decorate for us and a dj. She also gave me the cake letter. They use the company Who Made the Cake!, so now I have to set up an appointment to go get my cake made. I just checked out their website and they are awesome. I posted a few pics from their site. Once again, I am getting excited! |
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12/08/2008
 pool-s red black mainpool     |
Exclusive Set in Pool Blue
..I had to order it....
When I saw this, I got excited, I had to order it. So, of course I did. This set is going to be in my wedding color, pool blue. There are more things that I can order but for now, I just ordered this set. There are many more things I have to order but for now just this, after christmas time is over I am going to order all of the things I need/want for the wedding to make sure I get them in time. As time gets closer and closer, the more excited I become... |
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12/07/2008
 absdiet |
Inspiration to be in SHAPE!
The Abs Diet for Women Workout [DVD]
This is a kick ass workout dvd. It worked me harder than the Jillian Micheal's dvd, I know it did b.c. I bought both. I got through the first 20 minutes of Jillian Micheals but this dvd made me stop...I was sweating and had to get some water. I have been challenged so it's on now. I am not going to stop until I can workout the length of this video just like this lady, it's the cardio that's hard and that means I am out of shape. I am not working out to loose weight. I am working out to be fit and healthy and have a good cardio routine. So, ladies if you are looking for a great workout dvd, sure to give you results, try this one. The Abs Diet for Women DVD. They also have a book for this diet plan, I am sure it's a good diet plan. |
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12/06/2008
 Betsy white5 mackenzie_ white     |
Bridal Shoes
I decided....
I have decided on my bridal shoes and I ordered them today. I have searched high and low for shoes that I want, in my wedding color. It has been hard, especially since we are in the fall season now. No one is selling aqua or light shoes. I went with the old trusty favorite....David's Bridal. I ordered a pair of shoes from DB today along with my daughter some shoes too. I did it over the phone, didnt even have to drive to the store. They will dye the shoes pool blue free of charge, and there you have it. I have my bridal shoes for myself and my daughter that are the exact same color and will look great. Why spend a lot of money when you don't have too? DB has stepped their game up and they have great accessories now. |
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12/05/2008
 LAv luminess luminess1    |
I'll be the Guinea Pig....
I ordered the airbrush make-up kit
Ladies, I just ordered the airbrush makeup kit from Luminess Air. I did an earlier post about this. |
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12/04/2008
 photographer |
Photography
I booked our photographer!
This evening I went to meet a prospect for a photographer for our wedding. I have to admit that I was skeptical and when I came home I thought about cancelling. But, I decided to go ahead and meet him at Starbucks. I had only talked to him through email. He sent me all of his info and i got his website and I went thorugh all of the links for the previous weddings. |
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12/04/2008
 99 |
I'm in the double digits now!
...only 99 days left to the wedding!.....
Today makes 99 days until the wedding, what am I going to do? We are already in December and I have a lot of things to do to make sure this wedding will go smoothly. Just the thought of 99 days makes me feel like I am going to have an anxiety attack. What's a girl to do? I am really feeling the pressure now. Plus to add to it, a lot of people are asking me so many questions, some saying they want to help but, I have realized in the long run, they dont want to help beacuse they dont want to spend any money. Then how are you helping with this wedding? It irritates me and makes my mood real sour. I am really just ready to get this all over with. But under no circumstances, WILL I LET ANYONE ELSE GET TO ME ON MY WEDDING DAY! No way it's going down like that..... |
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12/03/2008
 ladyhand hand 3bra    |
Wedding Hand Bracelets
...another unique item....
In my attempt to look for more bridal jewelry today, I came across a unique item. It was a wedding Hand Bracelet. Very nice, made with rhinestones and crystals, a lot of BLING! BLING! perfect for my theme. I really liked this, and since I found it while I was at work, of course I dont remember the website while I am at home now. I am searching for it but, I still cant find it, I came across another site that had a few but these are not as fancy as the other ones... If anyone knows about wedding hand bracelets and knows of some websites, please let me know..... I realized that I want one of these now, to wear around my ring finger on my wedding day. It's funny because when I saw them they were really nice and it made me think of that thing Beyonce wears on her hand on the "Put a Ring on it Video"! But of course this would not look anything like that, this would be very elegant. |
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12/02/2008
 aqua fancy jewelry   |
Ask a Question
Where can I find Flowergirl Jewelry Sets?
As I am browing the internet looking for jewelry for my daughter. I see some places sell flowergirl jewelry sets, some sell the jewelry seperately. I am looking for things that are reasonably priced. Where can I find flowergirl jewelry sets for cheap? |
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12/01/2008
 aisle-runner-moore |
Aisle Runner
I ordered our aisle runner!
Just wanted to say thanks to the ladies you sent me info about the wedding verses. Unfortunately, I have decided to just go with one of our monograms. I actually picked four words to go on the runner: Love knows no limit... and this little saying will cost twice as much as the monogram? It doesnt make sense to me but, oh well. We dont have to have a verse on it. I am excited about it, I am slowly ordering everything we need, day by day of course. I did myself a big favor by not going shopping after thanksgiving. Now, I can just focus on the wedding stuff..... the countdown is on now! |
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11/30/2008
 aislerunner |
Ask a Question
Where can I get wedding verse's for my aisle runner?
Tomorrow, I plan on ordering a custom made aisle runner for the wedding. I need the runner be very long, so it will have enough space for at least 3 places to put wording. I am going to have one of our monograms on it, of course but, I have to pick a wedding verse to put in the middle of the runner. Where can I get a wedding verse from? I need several to choose from and they dont have to be very long. If you girls have some please send them to me or direct me to a website, where I can find them. |
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11/28/2008
 bluecherry bluecherry1 bluecherry2 bluecherry3 bluecherry4      |
I got 'em.....
....I got the blue cherries!
So today, I didnt do any Christmas Shopping, (yeah for me) I did run a few errands and I stopped by a liquor store to see if they had the blue cherries and guess what? They did! I bought that last two jars. The jars are kinda small but it looks like they hold between 20-30 cherries. It was $3.30 for each, and Of course I bought me some wine, just because....Moscato Allegro ....is the best! |
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11/27/2008
 thanksgiving day |
Ask a Question
What are you most Thankful for?
Happy Thanksgiving! As we all sit down at the dinner table with family and friends, ready to eat all that turkey and desserts.....it's a wonder how we manage to eat it all. A question comes to mind as to what I am most Thankful for ? Today, I can say I am most thankful for my family. I am blessed to have a large family that deeply cares about me, I am thankful for my career, I am thankful for the part time jobs I was able to land (in the midst of layoffs and a bad economy). I am truly blessed and thankful for the beautiful daughter that I have, and finally I am thankful to have a loving fiance on my side, who truly loves me for me. |
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11/26/2008
 flower |
Flowergirl Dress
....her dress came in today!
OMG! today, I got my daughter's dress. Oh it's so nice and beautiful. She tried it on but she wouldn't let me take pictures of her in it. It seems to be the right size but it may need to be taken in a bit because she is so skinny. She looks like a little bride. She wanted to hurry up and take the dress off so Mario wouldn't see her. She did ask me about having a pool blue sash, I told her we are just going to have to work on that but, we will have it for her in the end. |
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11/26/2008
 colorfullpage |
Colored Nail Tips
just to match your wedding color.....
These are colored nail tips. There are so many colors now, that one of then will definantely match your wedding color. You know when you go to the nail shop and they ask if you want a french manicure and they normally give you plain white tips, then they drill and buff them to make them shine. These are colored nail tips so now you can get a french manicure in any color and not have to worry about the polish chipping off. I saw some of the colors at the nail shop I go to and I saw the turquoise one which look just like tiffany blue. Right now I am wearing purple pearl and people have told me it's a pretty color, but when I say it's the nail tips, they say huh? Then I have to explain that they have colored nail tips now and its a lot easier to maintain. The only polish you have to use with these is clear. I am already thinking about taking my niece to get her nails done like this for my wedding. Do you think I should get the turquoise nail tips also, or just stick with white pearl for the wedding day? |
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11/25/2008
 park avenue flutes park avenue server   |
Things Remembered
Flutes & Servers
I got my Bridal guide magazine and I saw the Flute and Server set that I want, well, I must have these. The picture in the magazine is so great, it really shows how much Bling, Bling these items really have, I went online to get pictures to show you but, theses pictures dont show off the crystals as much. These are from Things Remembered, they have wonderful keepsake items especially for weddings. I think they offer free personalization with these so you can get your names and wedding date engraved on them. These sets are $65 each. Do you think they will go on sale? I hope so. Also, they are giving a 20% off coupon (code 2503) that doesnt expire until June 14, 2009. I am going to look and see if I can find a better coupon code for them. And you get free shipping if you spend over $100, they come in a keepsake box. I thought this was a great deal. With the coupon the total is $104, just enough for free shipping. Or, if you have the coupon out of the magazine you can take it to the store and bump the shipping. |
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11/24/2008
 bluemk browns jewel tones redcarpet diva starlet style blond       |
Check out my Mary Kay Virtual Makeover
...take a look girls
Now, I was looking to buy some Mary Kay skin care products for my face and I stumbled across this, I had to do it. Mary Kay lets you create a virtual makeover of yourself. You have to register with them on the site, upload a picture, any picture, and you can begin. I uploaded the picture of myself that I have on the blog. It lets you put on lipstick, lipliner, lip gloss, eye color, eyeliner, mascara and cheek colors. It also let's you upload a new hair style. Yeah, and I uploaded a blond look. It's the last picture. I have never been blonde before but, I am today, it makes me look like a drag queen, no wonder I have never went blonde!  glitter-graphics.com |
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11/22/2008
 whitesatin |
Bridesmaids
this is the shoe I picked for my bm's
I finally made a decision on the shoes I want my bridesmaids to wear, I think it will accent the dress perfectly. The tiffany theme comes into play and it has a little bling on it. The heel isnt too high so my girls can get our there and dance if they want to. It's not expensive either and I told them to shop for it online b.c they may be able to find it cheaper. They may not have to because shoebuy.com is offering $20 off all shoes over $50 plus free shipping. Hey, I emailed it to my girls, lets see if they take advantage of it. glitter-graphics.com |
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11/21/2008
 Maddy |
The Flowergirl's Shoe
for my daughter......
I am thinking about ordering these for my daughter and having them dyed pool blue, she told me she wanted to wear blue shoes if I am going to be wearing them. I think these shoes are nice for her, to complete her look. glitter-graphics.com |
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11/19/2008
 tawbag2 tawbag   |
Something new and different for your wedding
TAWBAG memory book!
Hey Ladies, I came across a fairly inexpensive memory book, TAWBAG. You can create a tawbag memory book for any special occasion but I think it would be ideal for all of the upcoming weddings. Here is the email they sent me: |
Your unique 15% off coupon code is TZ15YPQA. You must register before November 30th, 2008 for this coupon to be valid. Registration is free.
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11/17/2008
 reception |
Reception
What about the unexpected problems?
You've been one dutiful duo preparing for every possible wedding-day catastrophe, from red wine hitting white silk to the nightmare of the no-show vendor. Think you've got every last detail crossed off your list? Maybe not! There are some difficult to anticipate problems out there -- but you don't have to worry, because we're giving you the heads up. |
The Problem: Your child attendants and young cousins: so angelic during the ceremony, so C-R-A-Z-Y after overindulging in your sugary wedding cake. Kids will be kids -- but that doesn't mean they must be screaming, crying, and racing around a formal reception.
The Solution: You can put them in tiny gowns and tuxedos, but you definitely can't force them to uphold a formal atmosphere. If you're inviting kids to your celebration, you have to understand they might not make it through without getting rambunctious. That said, there are some great ways to keep them from knocking things over and making a mess.
Damp Dress Distress
The Problem: It's the morning of and it's raining. The ceremony and reception are being held inside -- but first, the bride has to get there in her voluminous princess-style gown. You could throw a tarp over her or roll her up in a carpet, but we've got a more stylish option.
The Solution: No couple wishes for rain on their wedding day, though we hear it is considered good luck. If you're worried you're going to get lucky (even if it's not in the forecast), consider packing a golf umbrella. Why? It's the only cover large enough to get the bride from the limo to the church to the reception to the hotel without letting raindrops mar her gown. And besides, some of our all-time favorite wedding photos are of newlyweds smooching beneath an umbrella big enough for two.
Think & Drink
The Problem: You know it's a successful party when you start running really low on supplies -- especially liquor. Everyone's had a good time, but everyone might not be fit to drive. What do you do about that?
The Solution: You already know that lots of responsible brides and grooms book buses or shuttles to ferry guests back and forth from reception to hotel. What you might not know is that you may need more runs than you think. While no one's going to say they require a ride prewedding, after a few too many cocktails they might. A couple more bus runs will ensure you've got a seat for everyone to get home safely.
Not-So-Fresh Picked
The Problem: The main course hasn't even been served, and your flowers are already starting to wilt. It happens to the best of flowers -- a lot more often than you think.
The Solution: Brown might be a hot wedding color right now, but not for flowers. When you're shopping around, stick to hardy blooms that don't bruise easily and can go the distance (especially if you're marrying in a particularly hot or humid place). Sunflowers, gerbera daisies, dahlias, lilies, and hydrangeas are all reasonably safe bets -- their woody stems and slightly tough petals will last longer than other varieties and hide their age. Avoid super-soft flowers like gardenias, lilies of the valley, and tulips, which are more likely to wilt in the spotlight.
If you simply must have these blooms, take preventative action. Your florist should take care of properly cutting and feeding the flowers, but you can help prolong their lives by keeping them away from radiators and other sources of heat -- including windows with southern exposure. Also, if you're providing the vases or containers for your centerpieces, be sure that they've been washed with an antibacterial soap so that nothing in your vessels is promoting decay.
The Paper Chase
The Problem: When you chose your vendors, you dotted your i's, crossed your t's, and got it all in writing -- except for all those little details you worked out over the phone as you changed your mind and renegotiated. A savvy move -- at least until it's time to pay the bills and you're scrambling to remember exactly how much they said each different bit would cost. You don't want to spend more than you planned, but how do you deal with everything you didn't get on paper?
The Solution: Finish what you started. No matter how small, no matter how nit-picky, get it all in writing. If you don't want to deal with asking a vendor to amend the contract every time you make a verbal change, simply follow up your phone conversation with a quick email confirming what was just said. It doesn't have to be elaborate -- a simple note saying, for example, "Thanks for taking the time to chat with me earlier about the new menu ideas. I just wanted to confirm that the price of the beef filet for 150 would be X." Save copies of your messages and replies, compile them, and give the stack to a family member to bring to the reception (or summarize in one email and ask the vendor to okay it). That way, there will be no question or argument when the time comes to pay your vendors.
Guests Gone AWOL
The Problem: The ceremony's over, time for the cocktail hour. Delicious hors d'oeuvres, fabulous drinks...but where are the guests? Arriving in scattered clumps and clusters, still disoriented from the trek between ceremony and reception site -- oh no!
The Solution: Unless your ceremony and reception site are one and the same, you're going to have to deal with the logistics of getting guests around. This doesn't have to mean splurging for a bus -- as long as everyone has directions. Sure, you might have sent that adorable map with your save-the-dates, but how many guests brought it with them?
To avoid having to assemble a last-minute motorcade or having anyone muss up their keepsake map, include brief directions to your reception site at the very end of your wedding program. If you're not keen on that idea, print directions on small, separate sheets. When the ceremony concludes, the same helpful folks who handed out your programs can head to the back once again to give guests the directions as they recess -- leaving you with zero guests lost or late.
Let There Be Light
The Problem: Little can beat a reception site with amazing sunset views -- unless guests are blinded by it. Same goes for candlelight receptions overwhelmed by natural light. Who knew what all those windows could do!
The Solution: Don't fall out of love with your reception site's great view -- simply arrange to see it at the time of day that your wedding will take place. If you know that there will be a lot of light (or just a little), you can plan your lighting accordingly. Remember that the season will affect light too. Worried it will be too bright? Rent sheer, colorful drapes or simply hang fabric so the sun can still shine in -- it'll just tone it down a bit. Will your sunny site be too dark come evening? Turn low lighting into mood lighting with strategically placed candles.
Gimme Shelter
The Problem: The great outdoors is a great spot for a wedding. The flora, the fauna...the skies opening up and pouring rain minutes before the start to the ceremony -- but naturally, now you're ready for that one with umbrellas. But what about other complications?
When it comes to hosting an outdoor wedding, having a plan B is just as important as having a plan A. And it doesn't just stop with renting a tent. Once you're covered, solving one problem may create another, such as guests coming in out of the rain and tracking mud with them.
The Solution: Unless the bride plans on holding her hemline aloft for hours, go with plan C: clean 'em up! When you're talking to your tent company or reserving your reception site, confirm with the vendors that they have mats that can be set up at entryways or around the perimeter so that guests can wipe their feet. That way, if the skies are threatening, you can just remind your wedding coordinator or deputize a family member to get things all laid out. It'll ensure your dance floor stays spotless.
Dancing in the Dark
The Problem: Is someone turning down the lights on your romantic, candlelit reception? No, wait, it's actually the candles that are burning out! Yikes!
The Solution: You don't want your wicks to wear out before you do, so when you're shopping for reception decor start by picking up one each of a few different candles. On a day when you'll be home for a while (we know you know, but never leave burning candles unattended), light them all at the same time -- on the hour works best, since it'll be easiest to remember -- and see how long they burn. You need not sit there and watch, just check periodically to see how far they've made it. Once you know your votives, tapers, or columns can cut it through drinks, dinner, dancing and, of course, your grand departure, you're safe to buy the quantity you'll actually need. And you'll be all set to light up the night.
-- Kate Wood
The Problem: It's the morning of and it's raining. The ceremony and reception are being held inside -- but first, the bride has to get there in her voluminous princess-style gown. You could throw a tarp over her or roll her up in a carpet, but we've got a more stylish option.
The Solution: No couple wishes for rain on their wedding day, though we hear it is considered good luck. If you're worried you're going to get lucky (even if it's not in the forecast), consider packing a golf umbrella. Why? It's the only cover large enough to get the bride from the limo to the church to the reception to the hotel without letting raindrops mar her gown. And besides, some of our all-time favorite wedding photos are of newlyweds smooching beneath an umbrella big enough for two.
Think & Drink
The Problem: You know it's a successful party when you start running really low on supplies -- especially liquor. Everyone's had a good time, but everyone might not be fit to drive. What do you do about that?
The Solution: You already know that lots of responsible brides and grooms book buses or shuttles to ferry guests back and forth from reception to hotel. What you might not know is that you may need more runs than you think. While no one's going to say they require a ride prewedding, after a few too many cocktails they might. A couple more bus runs will ensure you've got a seat for everyone to get home safely.
Not-So-Fresh Picked
The Problem: The main course hasn't even been served, and your flowers are already starting to wilt. It happens to the best of flowers -- a lot more often than you think.
The Solution: Brown might be a hot wedding color right now, but not for flowers. When you're shopping around, stick to hardy blooms that don't bruise easily and can go the distance (especially if you're marrying in a particularly hot or humid place). Sunflowers, gerbera daisies, dahlias, lilies, and hydrangeas are all reasonably safe bets -- their woody stems and slightly tough petals will last longer than other varieties and hide their age. Avoid super-soft flowers like gardenias, lilies of the valley, and tulips, which are more likely to wilt in the spotlight.
If you simply must have these blooms, take preventative action. Your florist should take care of properly cutting and feeding the flowers, but you can help prolong their lives by keeping them away from radiators and other sources of heat -- including windows with southern exposure. Also, if you're providing the vases or containers for your centerpieces, be sure that they've been washed with an antibacterial soap so that nothing in your vessels is promoting decay.
The Paper Chase
The Problem: When you chose your vendors, you dotted your i's, crossed your t's, and got it all in writing -- except for all those little details you worked out over the phone as you changed your mind and renegotiated. A savvy move -- at least until it's time to pay the bills and you're scrambling to remember exactly how much they said each different bit would cost. You don't want to spend more than you planned, but how do you deal with everything you didn't get on paper?
The Solution: Finish what you started. No matter how small, no matter how nit-picky, get it all in writing. If you don't want to deal with asking a vendor to amend the contract every time you make a verbal change, simply follow up your phone conversation with a quick email confirming what was just said. It doesn't have to be elaborate -- a simple note saying, for example, "Thanks for taking the time to chat with me earlier about the new menu ideas. I just wanted to confirm that the price of the beef filet for 150 would be X." Save copies of your messages and replies, compile them, and give the stack to a family member to bring to the reception (or summarize in one email and ask the vendor to okay it). That way, there will be no question or argument when the time comes to pay your vendors.
Guests Gone AWOL
The Problem: The ceremony's over, time for the cocktail hour. Delicious hors d'oeuvres, fabulous drinks...but where are the guests? Arriving in scattered clumps and clusters, still disoriented from the trek between ceremony and reception site -- oh no!
The Solution: Unless your ceremony and reception site are one and the same, you're going to have to deal with the logistics of getting guests around. This doesn't have to mean splurging for a bus -- as long as everyone has directions. Sure, you might have sent that adorable map with your save-the-dates, but how many guests brought it with them?
To avoid having to assemble a last-minute motorcade or having anyone muss up their keepsake map, include brief directions to your reception site at the very end of your wedding program. If you're not keen on that idea, print directions on small, separate sheets. When the ceremony concludes, the same helpful folks who handed out your programs can head to the back once again to give guests the directions as they recess -- leaving you with zero guests lost or late.
Let There Be Light
The Problem: Little can beat a reception site with amazing sunset views -- unless guests are blinded by it. Same goes for candlelight receptions overwhelmed by natural light. Who knew what all those windows could do!
The Solution: Don't fall out of love with your reception site's great view -- simply arrange to see it at the time of day that your wedding will take place. If you know that there will be a lot of light (or just a little), you can plan your lighting accordingly. Remember that the season will affect light too. Worried it will be too bright? Rent sheer, colorful drapes or simply hang fabric so the sun can still shine in -- it'll just tone it down a bit. Will your sunny site be too dark come evening? Turn low lighting into mood lighting with strategically placed candles.
Gimme Shelter
The Problem: The great outdoors is a great spot for a wedding. The flora, the fauna...the skies opening up and pouring rain minutes before the start to the ceremony -- but naturally, now you're ready for that one with umbrellas. But what about other complications?
When it comes to hosting an outdoor wedding, having a plan B is just as important as having a plan A. And it doesn't just stop with renting a tent. Once you're covered, solving one problem may create another, such as guests coming in out of the rain and tracking mud with them.
The Solution: Unless the bride plans on holding her hemline aloft for hours, go with plan C: clean 'em up! When you're talking to your tent company or reserving your reception site, confirm with the vendors that they have mats that can be set up at entryways or around the perimeter so that guests can wipe their feet. That way, if the skies are threatening, you can just remind your wedding coordinator or deputize a family member to get things all laid out. It'll ensure your dance floor stays spotless.
Dancing in the Dark
The Problem: Is someone turning down the lights on your romantic, candlelit reception? No, wait, it's actually the candles that are burning out! Yikes!
The Solution: You don't want your wicks to wear out before you do, so when you're shopping for reception decor start by picking up one each of a few different candles. On a day when you'll be home for a while (we know you know, but never leave burning candles unattended), light them all at the same time -- on the hour works best, since it'll be easiest to remember -- and see how long they burn. You need not sit there and watch, just check periodically to see how far they've made it. Once you know your votives, tapers, or columns can cut it through drinks, dinner, dancing and, of course, your grand departure, you're safe to buy the quantity you'll actually need. And you'll be all set to light up the night.
-- Kate Wood
The Problem: You know it's a successful party when you start running really low on supplies -- especially liquor. Everyone's had a good time, but everyone might not be fit to drive. What do you do about that?
The Solution: You already know that lots of responsible brides and grooms book buses or shuttles to ferry guests back and forth from reception to hotel. What you might not know is that you may need more runs than you think. While no one's going to say they require a ride prewedding, after a few too many cocktails they might. A couple more bus runs will ensure you've got a seat for everyone to get home safely.
Not-So-Fresh Picked
The Problem: The main course hasn't even been served, and your flowers are already starting to wilt. It happens to the best of flowers -- a lot more often than you think.
The Solution: Brown might be a hot wedding color right now, but not for flowers. When you're shopping around, stick to hardy blooms that don't bruise easily and can go the distance (especially if you're marrying in a particularly hot or humid place). Sunflowers, gerbera daisies, dahlias, lilies, and hydrangeas are all reasonably safe bets -- their woody stems and slightly tough petals will last longer than other varieties and hide their age. Avoid super-soft flowers like gardenias, lilies of the valley, and tulips, which are more likely to wilt in the spotlight.
If you simply must have these blooms, take preventative action. Your florist should take care of properly cutting and feeding the flowers, but you can help prolong their lives by keeping them away from radiators and other sources of heat -- including windows with southern exposure. Also, if you're providing the vases or containers for your centerpieces, be sure that they've been washed with an antibacterial soap so that nothing in your vessels is promoting decay.
The Paper Chase
The Problem: When you chose your vendors, you dotted your i's, crossed your t's, and got it all in writing -- except for all those little details you worked out over the phone as you changed your mind and renegotiated. A savvy move -- at least until it's time to pay the bills and you're scrambling to remember exactly how much they said each different bit would cost. You don't want to spend more than you planned, but how do you deal with everything you didn't get on paper?
The Solution: Finish what you started. No matter how small, no matter how nit-picky, get it all in writing. If you don't want to deal with asking a vendor to amend the contract every time you make a verbal change, simply follow up your phone conversation with a quick email confirming what was just said. It doesn't have to be elaborate -- a simple note saying, for example, "Thanks for taking the time to chat with me earlier about the new menu ideas. I just wanted to confirm that the price of the beef filet for 150 would be X." Save copies of your messages and replies, compile them, and give the stack to a family member to bring to the reception (or summarize in one email and ask the vendor to okay it). That way, there will be no question or argument when the time comes to pay your vendors.
Guests Gone AWOL
The Problem: The ceremony's over, time for the cocktail hour. Delicious hors d'oeuvres, fabulous drinks...but where are the guests? Arriving in scattered clumps and clusters, still disoriented from the trek between ceremony and reception site -- oh no!
The Solution: Unless your ceremony and reception site are one and the same, you're going to have to deal with the logistics of getting guests around. This doesn't have to mean splurging for a bus -- as long as everyone has directions. Sure, you might have sent that adorable map with your save-the-dates, but how many guests brought it with them?
To avoid having to assemble a last-minute motorcade or having anyone muss up their keepsake map, include brief directions to your reception site at the very end of your wedding program. If you're not keen on that idea, print directions on small, separate sheets. When the ceremony concludes, the same helpful folks who handed out your programs can head to the back once again to give guests the directions as they recess -- leaving you with zero guests lost or late.
Let There Be Light
The Problem: Little can beat a reception site with amazing sunset views -- unless guests are blinded by it. Same goes for candlelight receptions overwhelmed by natural light. Who knew what all those windows could do!
The Solution: Don't fall out of love with your reception site's great view -- simply arrange to see it at the time of day that your wedding will take place. If you know that there will be a lot of light (or just a little), you can plan your lighting accordingly. Remember that the season will affect light too. Worried it will be too bright? Rent sheer, colorful drapes or simply hang fabric so the sun can still shine in -- it'll just tone it down a bit. Will your sunny site be too dark come evening? Turn low lighting into mood lighting with strategically placed candles.
Gimme Shelter
The Problem: The great outdoors is a great spot for a wedding. The flora, the fauna...the skies opening up and pouring rain minutes before the start to the ceremony -- but naturally, now you're ready for that one with umbrellas. But what about other complications?
When it comes to hosting an outdoor wedding, having a plan B is just as important as having a plan A. And it doesn't just stop with renting a tent. Once you're covered, solving one problem may create another, such as guests coming in out of the rain and tracking mud with them.
The Solution: Unless the bride plans on holding her hemline aloft for hours, go with plan C: clean 'em up! When you're talking to your tent company or reserving your reception site, confirm with the vendors that they have mats that can be set up at entryways or around the perimeter so that guests can wipe their feet. That way, if the skies are threatening, you can just remind your wedding coordinator or deputize a family member to get things all laid out. It'll ensure your dance floor stays spotless.
Dancing in the Dark
The Problem: Is someone turning down the lights on your romantic, candlelit reception? No, wait, it's actually the candles that are burning out! Yikes!
The Solution: You don't want your wicks to wear out before you do, so when you're shopping for reception decor start by picking up one each of a few different candles. On a day when you'll be home for a while (we know you know, but never leave burning candles unattended), light them all at the same time -- on the hour works best, since it'll be easiest to remember -- and see how long they burn. You need not sit there and watch, just check periodically to see how far they've made it. Once you know your votives, tapers, or columns can cut it through drinks, dinner, dancing and, of course, your grand departure, you're safe to buy the quantity you'll actually need. And you'll be all set to light up the night.
-- Kate Wood
The Problem: The main course hasn't even been served, and your flowers are already starting to wilt. It happens to the best of flowers -- a lot more often than you think.
The Solution: Brown might be a hot wedding color right now, but not for flowers. When you're shopping around, stick to hardy blooms that don't bruise easily and can go the distance (especially if you're marrying in a particularly hot or humid place). Sunflowers, gerbera daisies, dahlias, lilies, and hydrangeas are all reasonably safe bets -- their woody stems and slightly tough petals will last longer than other varieties and hide their age. Avoid super-soft flowers like gardenias, lilies of the valley, and tulips, which are more likely to wilt in the spotlight.
If you simply must have these blooms, take preventative action. Your florist should take care of properly cutting and feeding the flowers, but you can help prolong their lives by keeping them away from radiators and other sources of heat -- including windows with southern exposure. Also, if you're providing the vases or containers for your centerpieces, be sure that they've been washed with an antibacterial soap so that nothing in your vessels is promoting decay.
The Paper Chase
The Problem: When you chose your vendors, you dotted your i's, crossed your t's, and got it all in writing -- except for all those little details you worked out over the phone as you changed your mind and renegotiated. A savvy move -- at least until it's time to pay the bills and you're scrambling to remember exactly how much they said each different bit would cost. You don't want to spend more than you planned, but how do you deal with everything you didn't get on paper?
The Solution: Finish what you started. No matter how small, no matter how nit-picky, get it all in writing. If you don't want to deal with asking a vendor to amend the contract every time you make a verbal change, simply follow up your phone conversation with a quick email confirming what was just said. It doesn't have to be elaborate -- a simple note saying, for example, "Thanks for taking the time to chat with me earlier about the new menu ideas. I just wanted to confirm that the price of the beef filet for 150 would be X." Save copies of your messages and replies, compile them, and give the stack to a family member to bring to the reception (or summarize in one email and ask the vendor to okay it). That way, there will be no question or argument when the time comes to pay your vendors.
Guests Gone AWOL
The Problem: The ceremony's over, time for the cocktail hour. Delicious hors d'oeuvres, fabulous drinks...but where are the guests? Arriving in scattered clumps and clusters, still disoriented from the trek between ceremony and reception site -- oh no!
The Solution: Unless your ceremony and reception site are one and the same, you're going to have to deal with the logistics of getting guests around. This doesn't have to mean splurging for a bus -- as long as everyone has directions. Sure, you might have sent that adorable map with your save-the-dates, but how many guests brought it with them?
To avoid having to assemble a last-minute motorcade or having anyone muss up their keepsake map, include brief directions to your reception site at the very end of your wedding program. If you're not keen on that idea, print directions on small, separate sheets. When the ceremony concludes, the same helpful folks who handed out your programs can head to the back once again to give guests the directions as they recess -- leaving you with zero guests lost or late.
Let There Be Light
The Problem: Little can beat a reception site with amazing sunset views -- unless guests are blinded by it. Same goes for candlelight receptions overwhelmed by natural light. Who knew what all those windows could do!
The Solution: Don't fall out of love with your reception site's great view -- simply arrange to see it at the time of day that your wedding will take place. If you know that there will be a lot of light (or just a little), you can plan your lighting accordingly. Remember that the season will affect light too. Worried it will be too bright? Rent sheer, colorful drapes or simply hang fabric so the sun can still shine in -- it'll just tone it down a bit. Will your sunny site be too dark come evening? Turn low lighting into mood lighting with strategically placed candles.
Gimme Shelter
The Problem: The great outdoors is a great spot for a wedding. The flora, the fauna...the skies opening up and pouring rain minutes before the start to the ceremony -- but naturally, now you're ready for that one with umbrellas. But what about other complications?
When it comes to hosting an outdoor wedding, having a plan B is just as important as having a plan A. And it doesn't just stop with renting a tent. Once you're covered, solving one problem may create another, such as guests coming in out of the rain and tracking mud with them.
The Solution: Unless the bride plans on holding her hemline aloft for hours, go with plan C: clean 'em up! When you're talking to your tent company or reserving your reception site, confirm with the vendors that they have mats that can be set up at entryways or around the perimeter so that guests can wipe their feet. That way, if the skies are threatening, you can just remind your wedding coordinator or deputize a family member to get things all laid out. It'll ensure your dance floor stays spotless.
Dancing in the Dark
The Problem: Is someone turning down the lights on your romantic, candlelit reception? No, wait, it's actually the candles that are burning out! Yikes!
The Solution: You don't want your wicks to wear out before you do, so when you're shopping for reception decor start by picking up one each of a few different candles. On a day when you'll be home for a while (we know you know, but never leave burning candles unattended), light them all at the same time -- on the hour works best, since it'll be easiest to remember -- and see how long they burn. You need not sit there and watch, just check periodically to see how far they've made it. Once you know your votives, tapers, or columns can cut it through drinks, dinner, dancing and, of course, your grand departure, you're safe to buy the quantity you'll actually need. And you'll be all set to light up the night.
-- Kate Wood
The Problem: When you chose your vendors, you dotted your i's, crossed your t's, and got it all in writing -- except for all those little details you worked out over the phone as you changed your mind and renegotiated. A savvy move -- at least until it's time to pay the bills and you're scrambling to remember exactly how much they said each different bit would cost. You don't want to spend more than you planned, but how do you deal with everything you didn't get on paper?
The Solution: Finish what you started. No matter how small, no matter how nit-picky, get it all in writing. If you don't want to deal with asking a vendor to amend the contract every time you make a verbal change, simply follow up your phone conversation with a quick email confirming what was just said. It doesn't have to be elaborate -- a simple note saying, for example, "Thanks for taking the time to chat with me earlier about the new menu ideas. I just wanted to confirm that the price of the beef filet for 150 would be X." Save copies of your messages and replies, compile them, and give the stack to a family member to bring to the reception (or summarize in one email and ask the vendor to okay it). That way, there will be no question or argument when the time comes to pay your vendors.
Guests Gone AWOL
The Problem: The ceremony's over, time for the cocktail hour. Delicious hors d'oeuvres, fabulous drinks...but where are the guests? Arriving in scattered clumps and clusters, still disoriented from the trek between ceremony and reception site -- oh no!
The Solution: Unless your ceremony and reception site are one and the same, you're going to have to deal with the logistics of getting guests around. This doesn't have to mean splurging for a bus -- as long as everyone has directions. Sure, you might have sent that adorable map with your save-the-dates, but how many guests brought it with them?
To avoid having to assemble a last-minute motorcade or having anyone muss up their keepsake map, include brief directions to your reception site at the very end of your wedding program. If you're not keen on that idea, print directions on small, separate sheets. When the ceremony concludes, the same helpful folks who handed out your programs can head to the back once again to give guests the directions as they recess -- leaving you with zero guests lost or late.
Let There Be Light
The Problem: Little can beat a reception site with amazing sunset views -- unless guests are blinded by it. Same goes for candlelight receptions overwhelmed by natural light. Who knew what all those windows could do!
The Solution: Don't fall out of love with your reception site's great view -- simply arrange to see it at the time of day that your wedding will take place. If you know that there will be a lot of light (or just a little), you can plan your lighting accordingly. Remember that the season will affect light too. Worried it will be too bright? Rent sheer, colorful drapes or simply hang fabric so the sun can still shine in -- it'll just tone it down a bit. Will your sunny site be too dark come evening? Turn low lighting into mood lighting with strategically placed candles.
Gimme Shelter
The Problem: The great outdoors is a great spot for a wedding. The flora, the fauna...the skies opening up and pouring rain minutes before the start to the ceremony -- but naturally, now you're ready for that one with umbrellas. But what about other complications?
When it comes to hosting an outdoor wedding, having a plan B is just as important as having a plan A. And it doesn't just stop with renting a tent. Once you're covered, solving one problem may create another, such as guests coming in out of the rain and tracking mud with them.
The Solution: Unless the bride plans on holding her hemline aloft for hours, go with plan C: clean 'em up! When you're talking to your tent company or reserving your reception site, confirm with the vendors that they have mats that can be set up at entryways or around the perimeter so that guests can wipe their feet. That way, if the skies are threatening, you can just remind your wedding coordinator or deputize a family member to get things all laid out. It'll ensure your dance floor stays spotless.
Dancing in the Dark
The Problem: Is someone turning down the lights on your romantic, candlelit reception? No, wait, it's actually the candles that are burning out! Yikes!
The Solution: You don't want your wicks to wear out before you do, so when you're shopping for reception decor start by picking up one each of a few different candles. On a day when you'll be home for a while (we know you know, but never leave burning candles unattended), light them all at the same time -- on the hour works best, since it'll be easiest to remember -- and see how long they burn. You need not sit there and watch, just check periodically to see how far they've made it. Once you know your votives, tapers, or columns can cut it through drinks, dinner, dancing and, of course, your grand departure, you're safe to buy the quantity you'll actually need. And you'll be all set to light up the night.
-- Kate Wood
The Problem: The ceremony's over, time for the cocktail hour. Delicious hors d'oeuvres, fabulous drinks...but where are the guests? Arriving in scattered clumps and clusters, still disoriented from the trek between ceremony and reception site -- oh no!
The Solution: Unless your ceremony and reception site are one and the same, you're going to have to deal with the logistics of getting guests around. This doesn't have to mean splurging for a bus -- as long as everyone has directions. Sure, you might have sent that adorable map with your save-the-dates, but how many guests brought it with them?
To avoid having to assemble a last-minute motorcade or having anyone muss up their keepsake map, include brief directions to your reception site at the very end of your wedding program. If you're not keen on that idea, print directions on small, separate sheets. When the ceremony concludes, the same helpful folks who handed out your programs can head to the back once again to give guests the directions as they recess -- leaving you with zero guests lost or late.
Let There Be Light
The Problem: Little can beat a reception site with amazing sunset views -- unless guests are blinded by it. Same goes for candlelight receptions overwhelmed by natural light. Who knew what all those windows could do!
The Solution: Don't fall out of love with your reception site's great view -- simply arrange to see it at the time of day that your wedding will take place. If you know that there will be a lot of light (or just a little), you can plan your lighting accordingly. Remember that the season will affect light too. Worried it will be too bright? Rent sheer, colorful drapes or simply hang fabric so the sun can still shine in -- it'll just tone it down a bit. Will your sunny site be too dark come evening? Turn low lighting into mood lighting with strategically placed candles.
Gimme Shelter
The Problem: The great outdoors is a great spot for a wedding. The flora, the fauna...the skies opening up and pouring rain minutes before the start to the ceremony -- but naturally, now you're ready for that one with umbrellas. But what about other complications?
When it comes to hosting an outdoor wedding, having a plan B is just as important as having a plan A. And it doesn't just stop with renting a tent. Once you're covered, solving one problem may create another, such as guests coming in out of the rain and tracking mud with them.
The Solution: Unless the bride plans on holding her hemline aloft for hours, go with plan C: clean 'em up! When you're talking to your tent company or reserving your reception site, confirm with the vendors that they have mats that can be set up at entryways or around the perimeter so that guests can wipe their feet. That way, if the skies are threatening, you can just remind your wedding coordinator or deputize a family member to get things all laid out. It'll ensure your dance floor stays spotless.
Dancing in the Dark
The Problem: Is someone turning down the lights on your romantic, candlelit reception? No, wait, it's actually the candles that are burning out! Yikes!
The Solution: You don't want your wicks to wear out before you do, so when you're shopping for reception decor start by picking up one each of a few different candles. On a day when you'll be home for a while (we know you know, but never leave burning candles unattended), light them all at the same time -- on the hour works best, since it'll be easiest to remember -- and see how long they burn. You need not sit there and watch, just check periodically to see how far they've made it. Once you know your votives, tapers, or columns can cut it through drinks, dinner, dancing and, of course, your grand departure, you're safe to buy the quantity you'll actually need. And you'll be all set to light up the night.
-- Kate Wood
The Problem: Little can beat a reception site with amazing sunset views -- unless guests are blinded by it. Same goes for candlelight receptions overwhelmed by natural light. Who knew what all those windows could do!
The Solution: Don't fall out of love with your reception site's great view -- simply arrange to see it at the time of day that your wedding will take place. If you know that there will be a lot of light (or just a little), you can plan your lighting accordingly. Remember that the season will affect light too. Worried it will be too bright? Rent sheer, colorful drapes or simply hang fabric so the sun can still shine in -- it'll just tone it down a bit. Will your sunny site be too dark come evening? Turn low lighting into mood lighting with strategically placed candles.
Gimme Shelter
The Problem: The great outdoors is a great spot for a wedding. The flora, the fauna...the skies opening up and pouring rain minutes before the start to the ceremony -- but naturally, now you're ready for that one with umbrellas. But what about other complications?
When it comes to hosting an outdoor wedding, having a plan B is just as important as having a plan A. And it doesn't just stop with renting a tent. Once you're covered, solving one problem may create another, such as guests coming in out of the rain and tracking mud with them.
The Solution: Unless the bride plans on holding her hemline aloft for hours, go with plan C: clean 'em up! When you're talking to your tent company or reserving your reception site, confirm with the vendors that they have mats that can be set up at entryways or around the perimeter so that guests can wipe their feet. That way, if the skies are threatening, you can just remind your wedding coordinator or deputize a family member to get things all laid out. It'll ensure your dance floor stays spotless.
Dancing in the Dark
The Problem: Is someone turning down the lights on your romantic, candlelit reception? No, wait, it's actually the candles that are burning out! Yikes!
The Solution: You don't want your wicks to wear out before you do, so when you're shopping for reception decor start by picking up one each of a few different candles. On a day when you'll be home for a while (we know you know, but never leave burning candles unattended), light them all at the same time -- on the hour works best, since it'll be easiest to remember -- and see how long they burn. You need not sit there and watch, just check periodically to see how far they've made it. Once you know your votives, tapers, or columns can cut it through drinks, dinner, dancing and, of course, your grand departure, you're safe to buy the quantity you'll actually need. And you'll be all set to light up the night.
-- Kate Wood
The Problem: The great outdoors is a great spot for a wedding. The flora, the fauna...the skies opening up and pouring rain minutes before the start to the ceremony -- but naturally, now you're ready for that one with umbrellas. But what about other complications?
When it comes to hosting an outdoor wedding, having a plan B is just as important as having a plan A. And it doesn't just stop with renting a tent. Once you're covered, solving one problem may create another, such as guests coming in out of the rain and tracking mud with them.
The Solution: Unless the bride plans on holding her hemline aloft for hours, go with plan C: clean 'em up! When you're talking to your tent company or reserving your reception site, confirm with the vendors that they have mats that can be set up at entryways or around the perimeter so that guests can wipe their feet. That way, if the skies are threatening, you can just remind your wedding coordinator or deputize a family member to get things all laid out. It'll ensure your dance floor stays spotless.
Dancing in the Dark
The Problem: Is someone turning down the lights on your romantic, candlelit reception? No, wait, it's actually the candles that are burning out! Yikes!
The Solution: You don't want your wicks to wear out before you do, so when you're shopping for reception decor start by picking up one each of a few different candles. On a day when you'll be home for a while (we know you know, but never leave burning candles unattended), light them all at the same time -- on the hour works best, since it'll be easiest to remember -- and see how long they burn. You need not sit there and watch, just check periodically to see how far they've made it. Once you know your votives, tapers, or columns can cut it through drinks, dinner, dancing and, of course, your grand departure, you're safe to buy the quantity you'll actually need. And you'll be all set to light up the night.
-- Kate Wood
The Problem: Is someone turning down the lights on your romantic, candlelit reception? No, wait, it's actually the candles that are burning out! Yikes!
The Solution: You don't want your wicks to wear out before you do, so when you're shopping for reception decor start by picking up one each of a few different candles. On a day when you'll be home for a while (we know you know, but never leave burning candles unattended), light them all at the same time -- on the hour works best, since it'll be easiest to remember -- and see how long they burn. You need not sit there and watch, just check periodically to see how far they've made it. Once you know your votives, tapers, or columns can cut it through drinks, dinner, dancing and, of course, your grand departure, you're safe to buy the quantity you'll actually need. And you'll be all set to light up the night.
-- Kate Wood
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11/16/2008
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African American Hair Styles
How should I wear my hair?
I found several hairstyles that could be good for me on my wedding day? Most of the time, I add extensions into my hair to make it fuller and longer than what it really is so, I'll be doing that also on my wedding day but, how should I wear my hair? I am not sure now, I was also thinking about wearing it up like the pic of Keysha Cole, she has a real pretty up do. I got to make sure I have a great hairstyle on the big day......... |
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11/14/2008
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4 months to go!
wow, time is flying by......
As of Today, I have 4 months left until the wedding! yeah! I am saying yeah b.c i feel like I am ready to get this over with and just enjoy the married life with my husband. Now, I dont mean to sound negative but I am getting tired of dealing with everybody else's attitude about "MY" wedding, oh and it's my understanding that none of my bridesmaids have ordered their dresses yet, but, I am going to check with them this weekend to see if they did or not, apparently they think we have all the time in the world to do this, but we dont. |
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11/12/2008
 color |
Ask a Question
Where can I get my bridal shoes dyed?
Besides going to david's bridal and alfred angelo, where else can I get bridal shoes dyed? You girls helped a lot by letting me know so many other places I cant get bridal shoes from, but now I need to know where can I get them dyed at. Just curious to know because I feel like this is the only way I will be able to get bridal shoes in the color I want. I also found a cute pair for my daughter and I want to have hers dyed to. I think it would be great to see her dressed like me with shoes to match, in the same color! glitter-graphics.com |
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11/10/2008
 dyeablesshoes |
Ask a Question
Why do dyeable shoes costs so much?
Since, I am in search of a shoes that will match my wedding color for my big day, I am considering looking at dyeable wedding shoes. So since I looked for these today, I just want to know why dyeable shoes costs so much? I mean really, come on? Why would I pay so much for shoes that are pretty plain to begin with, then have to go pay for them to be dyed and be glad to spend my money like that. I'm just not feeling it, so it's back to square one. Since it's fall, a lot of stores don't have light colored shoes any more so I'll just have to keep looking online. |
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11/07/2008
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Ask a Question
Is Anyone going to seeTyler Perry's new play?
Tyler Pery has a new play out and I want to go see it. It's called the Marriage Counselor. It is coming to Houston the week before Thanksgiving. I want to take my fiance, and when I looked up the tickets they were all over $100 each, starting at $130. Uh, i guess you got to be rich these days in order to go see one these plays. We have been to a couple of these a few years back and the tickets didnt nearly cost this much. WTF?!!! |
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11/05/2008
 Ourbaby |
Routan baby maker
here is junior! ha-ha
Here is our new baby, Mario was very excited to see this one, he also told me today that I was pregnant. For the 15th time, no I am not.   |
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11/03/2008
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