Wedding Blues :(

What now????IM a mrs....

FIRST THINGS FIRST..i just have to say..some may think this is cheesy or stupid..but the whole church including me were in tears, and kept saying that jeff "stole the show" when he the following..
We wrote our own vows, and jeff went first...he CRIED...i have never seen him cry like that...it was the sweetest thing ever!!!!!!

So.....we got home from the honeymoon yesterday, and the whole time we were gone, i could barely sit still, because after months of running around all day every day (i had the luxury of not working for a year) i now have NOTHING to do...so...God willing, we will have a Vow Renewal in 5 years...i know long time from now, but hey, if i start in like a year, that gives me 4 years, to have a HugE shindig which we did not have at the wedding, it was BEAUTIFULL and perfect, but only had about 100 guests...so a few ?'s for all the Mrs. and soon to be Mrs's

1.What are you doing with all your wedding stuff after its over?
2.Do u fell like okay..what now...redecorate my house?have a baby? get a new job? lol...i cant sit STILL!!!
3.do you think you will ever have a vow renewal and if so, what will you do differently from wedding (aside from the obvious things..)


I donated all the fresh flowers to a local hospice
The decorations were all a hit, especially the 14 crystal trees, and the chairpeople for Make a Wish, in Tn, and also Judges for the Miss America program, are 2 of my dearest freinds, and i was going to sell everything, but they have asked me do to all the decorastions for the make a wish gala in september, the few things i will buy, i will get on sale, then list fair market value for the cost and use them for a tax deduction...ex (4 large centerpiece vases, 100 dollars each, on sale for 9 dollars each...so i paid 36, will be listing them as 400 dollars...
) since i dont buy ne thing unless its on sale, that will be great for mnake a wish and for me...I also will be loaning out and doing decor for miss america this coming year...for various events locally...

So all my hard work paid, because i donated flowers to sick people, got a job doing decor for make a wish, i will get a tax ride off, and after a certain business owner for a laser skin care center saw my hard work, i was offered a full time job at the office...So no only am i a happikly married woman, i got several opportunities just from saving money and DIY projects..