~Our Renewals~ Hey my WBC family! I've been a little hush- hush lately. Our 14th wedding ann...
Soooooo...time to be honest and (hopefully) get some good advice.
Pete and I have been together a few years now and we used to be all over each other all the time. Literally could not keep our hands off each other. We've been living together for about a year now and engaged since the end of July. About 5 months ago I noticed that my libido dropped significantly, I just wasn't interested in sex at all. Kissing was still awesome and lots of cuddling, I just didn't want to do it. And now I realize that Pete has kind of accepted it and has stopped trying all together. I asked him about it and he said he really isn't interested in sex anymore either (which really broke my heart). That's when I realized we haven't had sex in 6 weeks!!! That is insane for us and definitely not ok in my books!
Has anyone else experienced something like this or have any advice for how to get out of it? I'm getting desperate! I wonder if it's the fact we've been living together for awhile now and the "spark" is gone or I've just been stressing about planning lately?