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What's the general view on these "humorous" wedding cake toppers?
Do you guys think they are a disgusting slap in the face of the bride or completely giggle worthy? It might be feminist to denounce these toppers as taking back the progress women have made to be treated as equals next to their male counterparts but they are pretty lame in my opinion.
My gut reaction to seeing one of these "funny" cake toppers was actually vomiting a little bit in my mouth. I find many things hilarious, in fact I like to spend my nights out at comedy shows. Nothing that suggests a bride has to force, drag or tie up a man to get him to the alter is funny to me. I would not want the reverse on the top of my wedding cake either...
I am marrying my best friend and the person I want to share my life with... not a man who I have somehow bewitched into saying "I Do".
Stuff like seems to insinuate that women need to push men into making a commitment and brides are thrilled with the looks of dread and defeat spread across their future husbands faces as they get ready to say their vows. I am not stealing Kevin's freedom any more then he is stealing mine. The notion that women just want to be married and that is all life is about for them while on the other hand men go to great lengths to avoid being "tied down" is ridiculous. I could probably go on forever about gender issues and the double standards surrounding marriage, relationships and commitment. I would like to know how you women feel about this? Are they completely misleading or is their some TRUTH behind these "humorous" cake toppers in your own lives? Do you just honestly find them funny?