? Let's hear it for the in-laws!...

...or not?

I like the future ILs myself, but they live so far away that they don't really interfere with our lives.

No problems now...In the beginning about a yearino the marriage, MIL tried to test me. It didn't work...It lasted about a good 6 months, but it's all squashed now.  She knows not to test me, because I can go hard core cold turkey on her  I don't play that bullcrap, especially about my children.

well I have a MIL from hell..... she is a bitter, angry, lonely, selfish woman, oh and she like my fiance's ex-girlfriend over me, and would even have her come around when we came by her house.....just messy,  I argued with her and my FH sister about it one day, b.c. I just got tired of their shit and snide reamrks, always have something to say and need to take cre of their own business,  how can a single woman interfere in my relationship?  (not feeling her) my fh said she wants us to come over for christmas, well-I am not feeling it b.c I have been with him for 6 years and have never spent a holiday with her, why now?  ---- and you know she will have her hand stuck out b.c she work,  she is just lazy, not disabled or anything and will get mad ifmy FH dont give her any money, but he stopped giving her $$$ a long time ago....

my MIL adores me and so does my FIL. they are very respectful. I feel so sorry for other girls and can't understand why anyone would be so vicious to the woman their son loves. I hope someday I have a son and he brings home a girl I can have a good relationship with.

I have a very good ML .

my in laws are great.  I went shopping with the FMIL last weekend for my christmas present (a watch) and she also bought me my wedding day perfume out of the blue.  We see them often and they are really helpful to us with advice, etc.

I'm just stopping by to tell you Happy New Year and hope your recovery is going well.

well....from july to september I DID not get along with my MIL! My fiance is an only child & a bit of a mama's boy, and this is the first time in his life he has actually chosen someone over her (he is 26!). She was literally obsessed with him. Called him 5 times a day..everyday! One day she called me (by mistake) his ex's name in front of all my friends! When we talked about it later she told me she couldnt believe I would be so immature to get mad about her making that mistake and that she thought i was more of a woman than that! She literally said (in an annoying little kids voice) "oh my god, i am so mad justins mom call me julie...i am sooo immature!" (and i actually wasnt even mad, just embarassed! which i told her!) i didnt talk to her for over a month after that, I was so mad! Then she called me one day crying & apologized, saying she was just scared to lose her son. Fortunately, things are WAY better now. We get along great now that she sees that I am marrying him no matter what! It was a loooong 3 months though!

thats great you get along with his parents, and owell his sisters will have to just get over it. Dont let them bother you girl. have fun and laugh alot at your wedding. Oh how did you get the background on your page?

My FH has 1 brother 2 sisters and his mom (his dad died 10 years ago) His brother is the only one i get along with. My FMIL and FSILs come straight from HELL. they dont care about anyone but themselves! His mom is selfish, backstabbing and manipulative. She tells my FSIL's lies about my FH which makes them think that hes a horrible person.... yep you read it right my fh's OWN MOTHER lies to make him look bad! We dont have much to do with his mom or sisters because of the way they are. (we tried to make mends a few times but it didnt work and we gave up because nothing is going to change them) My FH has an aunt and uncle that we are very close to... they are amazing people and consider them more inlaws than my real inlaws .... in all honesty we are pretty close to all of his aunts and uncles from his dads side.... they are all wonderful people

Fortunately my FH dosen't have sisters, lol!  My Future in laws are adorable though.  We really don't get to see each other enough to get on nerves yet.

I LOVE my inlaws.  My mom and her MIL have never got along (grandma had a bit of a problem with mom taking her son) It made me want SO badly to have nice inlaws and fortunatly I do.  I knew my FH sister before I even met him so that helped. But his whole family is incredibly friendly and goofy, they act just like my family.  They're generous and just easy going...I'm very very thankful!

I'm so blessed with the best IL's ever. I swear, they're the best. I met his mom on our 2nd date. I met his entire family (aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents: the works!) and they were all so wonderful and accepting of me. Made me feel like I was part of the family right away. They urged him to propose and make me a part of the family.  
After we got married, we lived on our own for about 6 months until I lost my job. Moved back in with his mom, and there are no regrets. She's very easy to talk to, doesn't but into our business, and gives us our privacy.
All in all, my IL's are completely amazing. I love them all so much =]

I don't have any yet.
The FH's dad has pretty much told me I can live at his house next year because I'm going to university in the city where he lives.
And his mom loves me. She's taking the FH shopping for my Vday gift this week. :)

My in-laws are evil and they absolutely hate me!!! Well at least his mom and sister do; I think the dad is beginning to warm up to me!!! His grandparents LOVE me to death his parents on the other hand have never given me a chance, never want to, and said they never will (although his dad is beginning to have a change of heart). I really doesn't bother me because I don't really like them either!!!
They want him back with his ex (who is in another relationship) because they have a child together and they think it is completely wrong and it will never be fixed unless they get married! They are ultra conservative (which is fine) but that isn't what is best for their daughter! His mom and sister need to get used to the idea that we are getting married and they better learn to live with it!!!

Oh my, what a can of worms you've opened... lol. I get along with my mother and father in law alright (i know they dont like the idea of thier son being with ME but... nothing they can do) We have been off and on for 7 years, broke up twice.

First time he put me through hell for 5 years. Took my kids for the ride, he had a serious addiction. It wasn't drugs or alcohol... but i left him for it. we were apart for a year, got back together because he said things were different and he didn't have a problem since i kicked him out. but it was same shit different pile and i freaked, i left him for another man. it wasn't the wisest of choices but i had to let him know what it felt like. he had no idea what the pain felt like that he caused for me time and time again. and that was all it was, i never loved the man i left him for. it worked, he came back a couple months later and apologized and said he wanted to be with me and for life.

we agreed to leave the past where it was, no more lies, no more secrets and no more games. we love eachother and thats all that matters. no more getting back or getting even with eachother. we just want to be happy together and forget the BS. his brother and sister are VERY opinionated about me, I'm a scandalous slut from hell in their eyes. I told them off pretty good. One reason I'm having my wedding a million miles from here, so they can't crash it!

What can I say. At the begining me and the FIL were fine and dandy. It wasn't till this past Christmas that all the drama from the past started to stir up. There was a comment on here from someone saying, "How could we women hate the women our FH love." I believe it's how could the Mother of our FH hate the women their son is about to marry. At least in my life I have done everything and anything possible. If you guys truly knew the whole story you'd be like "F" that lady, but I try to get along with the in-laws for my FH, but this past December I finally gave them a test of their own medicine and stood up for myself and now I'm the bad person. I now look at it like this. I'm over this situation and I apologized for anything I did that I believed to have been wrong, but my FH and I have two babies together and I told him as long as he's here with his babies and there's nothing wrong between him and I, I could really careless if his family hates me or not. I did all I could do to be civil with them, but I believe there is a point where the line should be drawn, and I hit that line and drew it!

i'm blessed that my FH's entire family loves me & always has. we've been through a lot together & we all get along very well. the only issue i've ever had is his stepmom thinks i dont like kids because i'm not over there house too much (i work completely opposite schedules from them so honestly i have no time). plus his little 4 year old half sister is a terro - i love her she's sweet and i like hanging out with her, but she does not listen to anyone which gets frustrating! oh well she'll grow up.

I was married once before and I HATED his mother. She was a very jealous lady. I knew her son better then she did. She walked out on her son when he was little and her son told me he wished he had a mother like me.  She tried to run my life. She would put up pictures of him and his exs. She did all sorts of stuff, my ex husband use to take her side. After I left him she called cps on me! The bia was the devil I swear.
Im getting remarried and I could not ask for better in laws. They are so sweet.  They ask if we need help and never push!!!   Im happy with them.
As for my ex and his mom they are still trying to get into our relationship.