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01/12/2011
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Bridesmaids
Some of their gifts...
My Bridesmaids have been AMAZING (so far, lol) and I really wanted to thank them for everything. Being in someones wedding isnt cheap, especially when you factor in that all my bridal party chipped in for my Bridal Shower, Bach Party, and the "male entertainment".
So Im getting them monogrammed bags (found them at Hobby Lobby 3 to a pack and having a local vendor monogram them) and filling them with lots of lotions and sprays that Ive gotten at Bath & Body Works and Victorias Secret (Semi Annual is a Brides Best Friend!) as well as MAC eyeshadow in their favorite colors, flip flops from the Old Navy $1 Sale, and etched wine glasses with their favorite wine. I made a little survey sheet for all of them to get an idea of their favorites and I just ordered one at a time over time. Some of them were easy like Chardonnay and Moscato, but then I have some divas that like specific brands like Noche Chocolate wine from Cooper Vineyards and White Christmas from Dennis Vineyards. Those I had to order via mail. Im also filling thier wine glasses with Godiva/Ghirardelli/and Lindt Chocolates! Here is a preview of the wine stuff, I cant wait to give them out!
01/12/2011
Debs Dress
Debs Dress
  
In Memory of My Mommy
...her Wedding Dress
I had been thinking of different ways I could honor my mother on Our Wedding Day. I lost her on 10/6/09, just 2 months before my FH proposed. She was the best and most fun Mother I could have ever asked for. She absolutely LOVED my FH and I know he would have her blessing.
I came up with the idea to have her dress hanging up in the foyer of the church as guests enter into the Ceremony. I also had the most daunting task of finding a dress form to put it on.....finally I found one on Craigslist for $35 and I negotiated it down to $20! YESSSSS!
Im going to include lots of white candles, pics of me and her as I grew up, and of course a big blow up of her wedding picture.
I also have considered taking a piece of her wedding slip (underneath) and using that as the wrap for my bouquet, so I can feel a piece of her as I walk down the aisle. Here is the dress on the dress form, my Mom was a skinny heffa (lol) and the dress is actually smaller than the dress form so I'll either make some make adjustments to the dress form or just hang the veil over the back so you cant see the opening.
Its going to be a major tearjerker when I see it on the big day, but I know she is smiling down on us!
12/27/2010
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WORST & BEST WEDDING FAVORS POLL
I have been to quite a few weddings and Im always excited to see what the wedding favors will be (not that I wasnt excited for the bride and groom but who doesnt like cute free stuff?!)
During the engagment process we have gotten lots of cool advice regarding our favors and the consensus was to get something your guests will actually use and not just look at. We decided upon a Big Sweets Buffet. I read a post by a WBC bride earlier accounting her top 5 things she takes in from weddings and favors were one of them.
I have seen some amazing favors; as well as some favors that I opened up on the way home and had to try and figue out (w/ the rest of the car) what they were and why they were favors.
So WBC give me your Best and Worst Memories of Wedding Favors and what about it made you feel the way you do?
I'll start: my fav were these high end crystal champagne glasses with the bride and grooms names on them, it had a swiveled stem and it just looked really classy how they had the set up.
Worst? Champagne glass charms shaped like flamingos....
12/22/2010
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Wedding Reception
How Much Alcohol to Buy~~~
I know this is a never ending debate amongst us brides and I have heard some great theories/calculations (for instance the average drinker consumes 1 drink per hour & you need 3 containers of chaser per spirit) I am having an open bar and my FH is a fraternity man so I def need to make sure there is ENOUGH for his brothers, LOL.
But I actually found a cool website that does the calculations for you based on how many guests, what type of drinks, and what time of day. It even breaks it down into what types of liquor like: Red wine, Beer, Vodka, Gin, etc.....Having this printout makes me feel a little more at ease when I walk into the wholesale store.

* http://www.realsimple.com/holidays-entertaining/weddings/wedding-wine-liquor-calculator-00000000008314/index.html

As always I feel its better to buy more than enough rather than just enough, and make sure the store will refund unopened bottles.
Current engaged brides or past brides, what are some of the tricks of the trade you have found to work well.

What size cups work best? Most popular wine choices? Has anyone been able to find Moscato in the box? Do things like cherrys, limes, etc work well or just make a mess?
12/20/2010
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Bridesmaids
Satin Bag for their Jewelry
I have been looking for a nice bag to put my girls' jewelry in since that will be one of their gifts for the wedding. Most places I find them to be rather expensive for just a little satin sack. I happened to find these cute and inexpensive satin bags at: http://www.papermart.com/Product%20Pages/Product.aspx?GroupID=2570&SubGroupID=2571&ParentGroupID=18957#2571

There are some other fabulous options there as well like leopard print, mesh, lace, crystalized, striped, metallic, the list goes on. This site is great in general for anyone who does alot of DIY. They only come in quantities of 30 but the prices start at only $4.80 and goes up to $13.80 based on the size you want, so even with the highest price you're only paying 46 cents per bag! And for that price you know you can find something else to do with the bags. Use them for a future gift, give gifts to other people who helped with the wedding, or even donate them to an upcoming bride! I am considering getting them monogrammed w/ my girls initials.

Happy Shopping!
12/16/2010
saveoncrafts1
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Save On Crafts
http://www.save-on-crafts.com/
I Absolutely LOVE this site. They have so many great things to make your wedding look beautiful. I especially like the vase fillers they offer. I am thinking of using them for a bulk of the vases for my reception decor, as well as ordering the floating candles.
The only minus is the SHIPPING. With everything being so heavy its going to cost a fortune to get it from California to SC......
12/14/2010
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Fun Survey!
Am I the only one that still gets giddy talking about my Wedding?! Here is a fun survey I found on a fab WBC brides page and I decided to fill it out. Answer the questions and post it in my comments as well, I love hearing other great stories!

How long did you date before you got engaged?
4 years

Was the proposal a complete surprise?
I knew that he wanted to marry me, but had no idea that it was going to happen that night.

Did you cry when he proposed?
OMG! Did I ever......My Mom had died about 2 months prior so I was still a ball of emotions

Are you buying his wedding band for him?
Yes, he saw Tungsten one day in the store and stopped and said "thats what I want" LOL

What day of the year will your wedding be?
7/9/2011

What kind of weather?
Hopefully nice and Sunny!

How many people will be there?
about 300

Time of day?
3pm

How many bridesmaids? Who would they be?
I have 11 Bridesmaids! Friends, Sorority Sisters, Cousins, His Sister, and His Cousins

What kind of cake/what will it look like?
We have a 4 tier cake with Red Velvet, Chocolate, and Lemon. Our top tier will be ours to keep for a year of course and it will be lemon as well. We decided on different patterns on each tier like stripes, silver metallic balls, etc

What kind of dress will you have/color/material?
I have a White Strapless Ballgown by Oleg Cassini

What kind of flowers in your bouquet?
White tulips, white roses, and midnight calla lillies. The wrapping on the bottom will be a piece from my Mothers Wedding Dress.

Kind of wedding bands?
He wants Tungsten and I want a row of baguettes

How will you wear your hair?
Short on one side and maybe hanging on the other?? I have to try out some options with my Stylist

What will the groom wear?
Grey tux, black shirt

How old will you and the groom be?
I will be 28 and he will be 26

How long will you be engaged before you get married?
1 year and 7 months

Live together before or wait till married?
We have been living together for 2 years and we love it!

Take a long time to plan the wedding or will it be simple?
I DEF like taking my time and not rushing it. Also gives my AWESOME Daddy a chance to pay for everything! LOL

Will you write your own vows or use something pre-made?
Just gonna repeat after the Minister and let the tears flow...
survey
12/14/2010
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Wedding Reception
Centerpiece With Live Fish
For one of the 4 Centerpieces we have decided to use live Fish. We really want to use black fish and have researched and hope to use Black Mollys. Just wanted to hear from any Brides who have done this successfully and have any tips or advice.
WBC Brides I know that some are against it, but this is not the post for that. I respect your bleeding heart but We have already DECIDED on using them, so please no comments on why your against it, Thanks.

I have seen some fabulous photos online and cant wait to see our vision comes into play. Also excited for the young guests who get to take these home with them.
12/14/2010
krys
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Adult Flowergirl
....has anyone else done this, or something similar?
So for Our Wedding we have 6 Flowergirls. 5 are little and One is adult. I absolutely LOVE the idea of this bc its cute & different. She actually said to me long before I ever got engaged "When you two get married, I want to be the Flowergirl" Well here we are and and I cant wait!
Any other brides doing this or something along these lines?

Pic 1 is she and I, Pic Two is her Dress.

fireandicelove

2 years since wedding
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Jul 09, 2011
Columbia, South Carolina, United States
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