Well, its time!!! I cannot believe it is here. I figured out this week that I am a planner and not a doer!! I would rather plan the entire thing then sit back and watch it all come together then have to follow through. It has been a fun process and its kept me busy while I stay at home with my little one but BOY OH BOY am I ready to get it over with.
I want to say thank you to WBC for putting this site up to allow us all to come together and brainstorm as well as be support for each other. I also want to say thank you to each and everyone of you for all of your advice, support, honesty and inspiration. I have blogged on many, many sites before but no one has ever touched me the way that you ladies have. My only wish is that I would have found WBC as well as you sooner. The amount of hardwork and creativity that you have all done has inspired me so much and not just in wedding planning but in everyday life. I feel as though I am a better person after this process and I can honestly say I couldn't have done it without you all. Well, ok I could have but let's face it...It was much more enjoyable and easier to handle situations because you were there. I don't mean to get sappy on you guys but this is a pretty surreal moment for me. This will be the 1st thing in my entire life that I have fully planned and executed!! I am notorious for beginning things and then not finishing them including school, jobs, what have you.
I never imagined myself with this man who I now cannot live without. We grew up together and were apart for 19 years. How is that when we met back up in the same location that I would find my mate. Since, I was a kid I've wondered where he was, what he was doing, what he looked like. I remember playing boyfriend and girlfriend with him and chasing him around while he complained. I remember wanting to marry that bleach haired, blue eyed kid. He was so adorable and now I will marry him. He doesn't have blonde hair anymore but man do those baby blues sparkle. I cannot believe that someone like myself who has been through so many personal battles has found someone that will love me as much as he does.
In closing before I become a blubbering mess. I am off to the alter!!
Be back when its all said and done!! Love you all so much and thank you again.
here are my bits of advice:
1.) be thankful and let everyone know it! thank every vendor, your venue and every single guest. and then thank them again. i believe in karma and people will know/appreciate your gratefulness and sincerity.
2.) hold hands. hold hands during the ceremony, during pictures, during dinner and dancing. don't let people separate you two. there were a couple times we had to look for each other during the night and wasted time that should have spent partying.
have a great day/night and don't stress the small stuff!!!
Have a fantabulous day and sarahdarling gave you the best advice! Wish you all the happiness in the world tomorrow and forever with your hunny! Funny you spoke about not finishing things, being organized, etc. I feel the same way about my wedding :) I am sooo on the ball and organized for the first time ever lol.
Have a fantastic day sweetie!!!! You absolutely deserve it!
Love Jessica
xoxo
You may be getting married as I write this, and I hope you're able to take in the moments, smile, and ENJOY! Congrats! Can't wait to read all about it. :)
Cant wait to see your pics!!!
Oh SARAH, I love your advice on not letting go!!! That is the best advice I have ever heard. Its true that day is all about 2 people!!!
Yayyyy! That is so exciting for you and I know with all your planning it will turn out FABULOUS!