Bridesmaids

U HAVE TO BE KIDDING ME

OKAY SO ORIGINALLY I HAD 6 TOTAL BRIDESMAIDS, I HAD TWO MATRONS OF HONOR AND 4 BRIDESMAIDS. MY 2 MOH WAS MY TWO BEST FRIENDS BOTH OF SEVEN YEARS. MY OTHERS BM ARE MY TWO SISTERS AND TWO REALLY GOOD FRIENDS. OKAY SOOOOOO MY TWO MOH ARE BOTH BUSY WOMEN AS WELL AS MYSELF ,ONE IS A ACCOUNTANT WITH HER OWN FIRM AND ONE IS A ASSISTANT MANAGER AT A APARTMENT COMPLEX. NOW I ORIGINALLY ASSUMED MY MOH WITH THE ACCOUNTING FIRM WOULD BE MORE BUSY BECAUSE THIS IS TAX SEASON. SO ONCE I GOT ENGAGED I ASKED THEM ALL TO BE MY WEDDING THEY ALL AGREED. SO LETS REFER TO THEM AS MOH #1(ACCOUNTANT) AND MOH #2(ASSISTANT MANAGER). SO THIS IS HOW THE STORY GOES , SINCE I HAVE GOTTEN ENGAGED MOH #2 WAS BEEN TRIPPING NOT RETURNING PHONE CALLS FOR 5 DAYS AT A TIME. SHE WOULD ALWAYS APOLOGIZE AND SAY SHE IS SORRY SHE HAS BEEN BUSY AT WORK AND WITH HER FAMILY. SO I TALK TO MOH #1 EVERYOTHER DAY AND SHE IS AT WORK SHE HAS OVER 20 CLIENTS A DAY AND STILL FINDS THE TIME TO ANSWER MY CALL OR CALL ME WHEN SHE GETS HOME IN THE EVENING. I DECIDED NOT TO HAVE A COORDINATOR BECAUSE I COORDINATED MY FRIENDS WEDDING LAST YEAR AND I KNEW EXACTLY WHAT I WANTED BUT THAT STILL DOESNT MEAN YOU DONT GET STRESSED OUT PLUS . NOT TO MENTION I AM A NURSE
AND A MOTHER TO A 8 Y OLD CHILD AND A 35 YR OLD FIANCE SO IM BOUND TO HAVE SOME STRESS . SO WHAT ARE YOUR MOH AND BM FOR ????.................... TO TALK ABOUT THE WEDDING AND VENT ,MOH#2 TELLS ME THAT I AM TRIPPING AND THAT I AM A BRIDEZILLA BECAUSE I ASKED HER WHY IT TAKES HER SO LONG TO CALL ME BACK AND SHE SAYS ( BTW I HAVE ONLY CALLED HER 3 TIMES IN 3 WKS AT THAT POINT ) "IM SORRY IM NOT AT YOUR BECKONING CALL BUT I DO HAVE A JOB HUSBAND AD FAMILY "" SO I ASKED HER DID SHE HAVE THE TIME AND PATIENCE TO BE A MOH AND SHE THEN TELLS ME YES AND THEN SAID TO AVOID CONFUSION EMAIL HER ANYTHING CONCERNING THE WEDDING BUT I CAN CALL HER IF ITS PERTAINING TO SOMETHING ELSE . WOW IS ALL I COULD SAY. SO I ASKED HER AGAIN IF SHE HAD THE TIME AGAIN, LONG STORY SHORT SHE TEXTED ME AND IT SAID " TO SAVE OUR FRIENDSHIP I DO NOT WANT TO BE A MOH OR BRIDESMAID IN YOUR WEDDING , I WOULD LIKE TO BE A GUEST AND IF YOU WANT ME TO COME TO YOUR ENGAGEMENT PARTY THEN ME AND MY HUSBAND WILL BE THERE ( btw SHE AND MOH #2 WHERE HOSTING THE PARTY FOR ME)!!!!!!!!!!. SO I TOLD HER THANKS FOR EVERYTHING SHE HAS DONE AND I WISHED HER WELL. I DONT NEED THAT KINDA DRAMA IN MY LIFE AND I TELL YOU WEDDING WILL BRING OUT EVERYONE FORREAL