Last night my FH and decided to stop by Men's Warehouse and look at what colors they have available for the tuxes. We originally wanted to have him in silver, the groomsmen in grey and the grand/fathers in like charcoal. One step up. But last night we decided on a white vest for him and fuschia tie. I was SO surprised he liked it, i pulled it out for him to see and he went with it! I'm excited!! So we will be more matching, his pants and jacket will still be black, but i'll wear matching pink heels and it'll look great in pics.
We picked the herringbone grey for the guys and charcoal for the grand/father. My grandfather will be walking me down the aisle and my FH is going to talk to his dad to see if he does or doesn't want to wear a tux. I think that is usually up to the groom's father his decision.
We want to ask a cousin as well if he will be usher. So, we'd also have to decide on a color vest for him. Maybe the same charcoal? IDK.
But overall we are very happy with the selection. They have great specials for the groom as well depending on how many people rent tuxes in your party.