05/07/2010
Blue Guest list and venues.. how do i get him to be more involved?
   

Guest list and venues..
how do i get him to be more involved?

we were supposed to write the guest list last week but of course we didn't. and i've been the one contacting venues left and right, he's not doing much! i don't know how to get him more involved in this..HELP!
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Oh I feel your pain. I don't know how to suggest he get more involved. Mine goes through small spurts of enthusiasm, usually after I cracked it at him, then gives up again. I just told him he'd better like what I organise, and not complain, if he's not going to be helpful. The worst bit, I can feel his boredom when we are talking about it, and then he comes out with comments like "can we have a monkey at the wedding?"
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 |  Leesburg, VA, USA  |  05/11/2010  | 
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