I should start by saying that I am IN LOVE with #1. Everything about her is so elegant, I love love love her look. :) And I'll be wearing a birdcage veil that is about half way down my face(best shown in pic#3). My dilema is that my hair is a little past my shoulders and we're getting married in June so... I don't know if my hair will be long enough...
Number 1 is GORGEOUS, and your hair should be long enough for a hairdresser to do pretty much whatever you want her to do. Have you ever thought of getting extensions? I'm not really a fan of fakin' it but if you get really good quality ones you'll get the look you really want.