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08/20/2010
Black NWR - I need support My sister-in-law hates me!
  
NWR - I need support
My sister-in-law hates me!
Im sooo sorry it is soo long... I'm just venting I guess :( 

Okay so 3 months after our wedding my husbands sister sits me down late one night & lets me know she hated me for the last 5 years!! & that she hated my entire wedding BECAUSE she had nothing to do with it! WOW... I was in shock, Im not conceided however the most important thing my parents taught me was its more important to be remembered as a nice sweet person & that has been my goal my ENTIRE life & I feel like I have lived that way fully Im always nice & never mean & dont like it when other people are mean!! 

Since the 1st day I met SIL (sister-in-law) she was so mean to me & everyday I was ever around her for 5 years!! But I kept my chin up & continued to be a nice person a brush it off my chin!  She flat out told me she hated me because I was too nice & stealing her brother away!!? Im not stealing anyone!! Plus they have never ever had a good relationship, why is she so protective!

So heres to the huge problem... This last Wednesday she got mad at me & stormed out.. I cried cause I just dont understand why things are like this... Well my husband followed His sister outside & he started defending me they were screaming so loud so I went out to defend myself and as soon as she saw me she started saying that "I had no personality, I was a piece of shit, All I do is follow my husbands lead, & that I have no life experience "All i said was " You Have No Idea Who I Am" she came storming towards me pointing her finger in my face (I still have no idea what she was saying I was soo scared! I am 4"11 -100 lbs & she is probably 5'7 160lbs) so I say "Dont get in my f'n face" (I NEVER CUSS, im not proud) She got EVEN closer in my face so i said "You have never been anything but a bitch to me from day one" What does she do you may ask??  She grabbs me by my throat and throws me against the wall!! Right as she was swinging to punch me my husband wraps his arms around her and they tumble to the floor!! I started bawling immediately...  Me & Chase stormed off and that was it, I cried a lot & he was fire mad & still is... He wont talk about it & I completely understand why!! How embarassing! His rents wont talk about it either... Im stuck!! I have my mom to talk to & she is soo positive without her id die!! BUT what would you girls do??? SIL has yet to apologize, she actually deleted ME from Facebook!!!!!! I did nothing wrong!! I dont regret 1 single word, it was the truth! 

My husband says we will never see or talk to her ever again!! What would you do?? I have no closure & no place to vent! Everyone is so secretive! Im soo confused & freaked out... What would you girls do? Or just think?

Ps... My neck is so bruised & it is day 2 since it happened, im constantly reminded everytime I turn my head :((( I've tried to tell my husband it hurts but that is just a huge reminder of the whole things so I understand why he kind of blows it off but still makes me sad
06/22/2010
Year Old Cake ;)Year Old Cake ;)
Year Old Cake ;)
Yummm
The Top
ButterCream Frosting.. Cracked A Little But Still Yummmo
Year Old Cake ;)YummmThe TopButterCream Frosting.. Cracked A Little But Still Yummmo
  
Wedding Cake
Year Old Cake... YUMMMMY!!
Who Woulda Thought!! ;)

Sunday Was Our One Year Anniversary & It Was Excellent! We Had Our Cake After A Nice Dinner & We Were Pretty Nervous About The Whole Thing From What We Had Heard From A LOT Of People!!

HOWEVER... Our Cake Ended Up Being VERY VERY VERY YUMMY! And Edible.. Tasted Just Like The Day Of Our Wedding & Not Stale Or Crunchy! :D

I know everyone isnt interested in saving their top tier but if you are we did our research and this is how we wrapped & stored it. :)

1. Place Top Tier In Freezer Unwrapped On Plate Or Something.
2. Wait Until Completely Frozen.
3. Once Frozen Wrap Very Tightly In Foil... We Ended Up Wrapping Ours 3 Times or 3 Layers of Foil And Tyr Not TO Leave Bubbles.... The Tighter The Better.. We Squished It Quite A BIt! :)
4. Place Back In Freezer.
5. DON'T Remove For A Year
6. Day Before Or Morning Of Your Anni. Place In Fridge To Thaw!!
7. YUMMMMO Eat & Enjoy :D

Thats Basically It Ladies.. If You Have Any Questions Feel Free To Ask! :D Good Luck With Yours!! Oh & My Cake Was Covered In ButterCream So I Dunno How Fondant Cakes Will Do.. Possibly A Different Outcome! Hopefully Not!

LOVE YA!!!
- Holly N.
08/19/2009
Kisses!!!Kisses!!!
Mascara
My Dress In The Sun
Getting Dressed
My Beautiful Shoes!
About To See My Groom!!
Love At First Sight!!
In The Vineyard
Just Pure Love
Kisses!!!
Shoes
The Whole Party!
Kissin Again :D
Groom & The Boys Sooo Cool! ;)
Us Being CrAzY As Always
My Girlys!!
My Bouquet!!
My G-Pas Purple Heart On My Bouquet With Lace From My Mom's Wedding Dress!! <3 My Favorite!
Me & My Daddy!
Hes Waitin On Me!! Awww :P
Sayin Our "I DOS"
Steamy!!! ;)
Mr & Mrs Niemann!!!!!
Love This One!
Floating Veil! lol
Our Favors & Rings
Our Rings!! <3
Our Cake!! Isnt It Incredible!!
Chase's Grooms Cake!! Monopoly!! Sooo Awesome!!
Giving Chase His Gift!!
Chase Loved His Gift!! There were many pictures of him looking at it!! YaY!
My Family & His Family!! United!! ;) lol
MascaraMy Dress In The SunGetting DressedMy Beautiful Shoes!About To See My Groom!!Love At First Sight!!In The VineyardJust Pure LoveKisses!!!ShoesThe Whole Party!Kissin Again :DGroom & The Boys Sooo Cool! ;)Us Being CrAzY As AlwaysMy Girlys!!My Bouquet!!My G-Pas Purple Heart On My Bouquet With Lace From My Mom's Wedding Dress!!  <3  My Favorite!Me & My Daddy!Hes Waitin On Me!! Awww :PSayin Our I DOSSteamy!!! ;)Mr & Mrs Niemann!!!!!Love This One!Floating Veil!  lolOur Favors & RingsOur Rings!!   <3Our Cake!! Isnt It Incredible!!Chase's Grooms Cake!! Monopoly!! Sooo Awesome!!Giving Chase His Gift!!Chase Loved His Gift!! There were many pictures of him looking at it!! YaY!My Family & His Family!! United!! ;)  lol
  
Wedding Photography
Our Amazing Professional Pictures!!!
I can not believe it has been TWO-MONTHS!!! :D But It has and we got our pictures a couple weeks ago! Im so in love with them! Is that strange? ;) Kelly did an incredible job! I mean they are better then I ever expected!! :D Here are some of our favorites!!

My Favorite is the one of us where were cheesin in the vineyard as soon as we got to see each other!! It was just an amazing experience!! Both of us loved to have that lovey-dovey time before the ceremony! And all of guests had no clue we had even seen each other!

www.kellyniemannphotograhy.com
06/27/2009
Mr & MrsMr & Mrs
Mr & Mrs
Me Cheesin It Up!
Kiss Me Baby!
FINALLY!!! :D
Me & My Daddy!
Cutting The Cake!
Mr & MrsMe Cheesin It Up!Kiss Me Baby!FINALLY!!! :DMe & My Daddy!Cutting The Cake!
  
IM MARRIED!!!
The Wedding Was Amazing!!
Im Back Yall!!!!!!!! We just got back from Cancun this morning around 4AM!!! It was an extremely long night of traveling!!!

So the wedding day literally came & went! I cant believe Ive been a wife for an entire week now!!

As soon as they started the music to walkdown everything went flawless! The ring bearers cracked everyone up & the flower girl loved throwing her pedals! lol My dad & I walked out & the rest is a dream come true! The ceremony was very short but so sweet we had so many compliments!

I loved my dress, my hair, my shoes, my makeup, the decor, the venue, the cakes, the food, my photographer!!, And more importantly my hubby!! He looked soooooooooooooo handsome!!

We did see each other before the wedding but it was the most romantic thing ever!! Kelly (my photographer) put him out in the vineyard outside between rows of grapes & he was turned away from the building. I came out as all my bridesmaids & his groomsmens got to watch from a distance! I walked down the hill & after what seemed to be a 1/2 a mile in hills I was standing behind him! Kelly snapping pictures like crazy and qued him to turn around! He was soo surprised & hugged me so tight! I couldnt have asked for anything better! We took pictures for about 20 minutes & started taking our party pics!

The morning was an extremely rough morning. My bridesmaid Audrey's mom passed away & we found out while we were getting our hair done, I was a wreak not for my day but b/c I wanted to be with Audrey in the worst way and comfort her! I think it was time though & Audrey was prepared. Audrey showed up at the solon a couple hours later & said there was no way in the world she would miss my day! It was realy really really hard to continue & be excited about pretty much anything but we all wiped our tears & her mom was in our thoughts all night! I cant thank Audrey enough for supporting me on my special day when she shouldnt have been there at all!

Sorry the post was so long! I know I will post plenty more when I start getting more pictures! I only have a couple from friends & family who have posted them on facebook & myspace! lol
06/16/2009
Wedding Band!!Wedding Band!!
MyNewCar!
Wedding Band!!
Megan & I
BACH PARTY!!
MOH Jill!! Team Bride!!
My Handsome Fiance!!!!!
MyNewCar!Wedding Band!!Megan & IBACH PARTY!!MOH Jill!! Team Bride!!My Handsome Fiance!!!!!
  
Accomplishments
Im Feeling SUPER Accomplished!!
We made the 8 hour drive back to Oklahoma since the wedding is here &&& in 5 DAYS!! YaY!! Since we have been here we have gotten a lot accomplished!!

1. Finally got my e-ring & wedding band back from tacori after 61/2 weeks! BUT it was soo worth it I am so happy with the way my band looks! I cant wait to wear it full-time! This was the best picture I could get for now, but still oh so pretty! :D

2. We bought me a new car!! I have drove my amazing PT cruisers wheels off! It was my first car ever so I was a little sad to see it go, but Im sure excited with what I got to replace it! FH got me an '06 Chevy Equinox! It is the prettiest color ever!! And it drives soo nicely! YaY

3. The tuxes came in early so we were able to try them on! I got to see Chase in his! I was freaking out he looks sooooo amazing in his tux!! I was all like "OH-MY-GOSH HONEY" & I was grinning from ear to ear! lol He feels really confident in it too so that is def. a plus!! :D

4. The bach. party went really well! It ended up being Me, My MOH JILL, Megan (humblehearted3) who is also getting married in 18 days & her MOH Audrey! It was like the old days!! We referred to ourselves as the "FAB 4" in school! :P It was so nice to get to spend some quality time with my girls!! We ate dinner & walked around bricktown! WHICH everyone thought we were lesbians marrying each other but by the end of the night we were telling complete strangers this. . "WERE GETTING MARRIED, & NOT TO EACH OTHER, TO MEN!!!" Everyone was cracking up & we had tons of random ppl taking pictures of us! Were also going to be in the OKC Gazette this coming Wednesday! YaY!! :D



Im So Excited Only 5 Days Remaining!!! Im Sooooo HAPPY!! And Still Not Stressed At All!! Were done with everything & Im so ready to marry my man!! WooooHoo!
06/14/2009
MeInMyMomsDress!MeInMyMomsDress!
MeInMyMomsDress!
  
Wedding Dress
Playing Dress Up!!!!
I thought it was pretty funny! My mom had her wedding dress out b/c she is cutting some of the lace off of her dress to use to wrap my bouquet with! Im so excited! BUT her dress was out & I couldn't resist! I've actually never put it on before!!

I think it looks like a "gone with the wind" dress! But if only you could hear how much my dad loves this dress & how he talks about my mom & how she looked in it! It is the sweetest thing!!! :D


She wore it 25 years ago! Aww :)
06/11/2009
BachParty&RehearsalDressBachParty&RehearsalDress
BachNight&RehersalDress 003
BachParty&RehearsalDress
BachNight&RehersalDress 003BachParty&RehearsalDress
  
Pretty Dress!!
Bach. Party Dress!!
My Bach. Party is this Saturday!!! I am soooo excited! I dont drink so my MOH said we are not going to do anything crazy but that I need to wear white! So I just now ran to the mall & the first store I went in, the first dress I grabbed, & the first dress I tried on!! WAS THE ONE! It is sooo freakin cute!! lol

I think I'm going to wear it for the rehersal & rehearsal dinner too since it is a week later & my bridesmaids will understand I'm sure :D

Im super excited!! FH thinks it is really cute too! He was happy I didnt choose anything slutty! lol Those were his words!! ;) haha
06/10/2009
Dad's TieDad's Tie
Dad's Tie
  
Something For My Dad!
Sandiego Chargers!!
We are possibly the biggest Sandiego Chargers Fans there is even though we live in Oklahoma!! My dad grew up in California so I was born with charger blood running strong through me ;)

My dad keeps bugging me about wanting to wear his WHITE tennis shoes & his sandiego hat! I said absolutely not! For this special day he can wear dress shoes & no hat! He was all bummed lol Well I naturally started to feel bad b/c he didnt get to wear anything he wanted to so I bought him this Sandiego tie!! Its awesome!! :P It wont stand out sooo badley being yellow & blue, but he will be so thrilled! I just know it! lol I cant wait to give it to him this coming Saturday when I head home to Oklahoma!! YaY!

Anyone doing anything special for their mom or dad for your big day?
06/07/2009
146896Black Wedding Photography Boudoir Session Tomorrow!!
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jenniferaniston-GQ
Black Wedding Photography Boudoir Session Tomorrow!!Black Wedding Photography Boudoir Session Tomorrow!!jenniferaniston-GQ
  
Wedding Photography
Boudoir Session Tomorrow!!
Im seriously freaking out!! Tomorrow Im taking my boudoir pictures for another gift for FH! He knows about them though!! He totally told me I should have a "naughty-session" little did he know I already had it planned! lol Luckily it is his cousins wife & me and her are close! So I'm trying not to get nervous! :P

How many of you girls are going to have them done or thinking about them??

*******************UPDATE*******************************
I took the pictures this afternoon! They went great! I was SUPER nervous like sick to my stomach nervous, but after 5 minutes it was really exilerating! (however you spell that) I felt like a model! lol Kelly made me feel very comfortable!! Nothing too risque though! FH keeps asking what poses or what I wore! Hes silly! I wont budge! He only has to wait 12 days anyways! lol

I also got to go through all the pictures she took and delete all the ones I didnt like & she edited them in front of me so now all we have to do is order a little tiny booklet for FH!! YaY! I *might* post a picture or two later when I get them in! We shall see!
06/03/2009
Bump-Its 008Bump-Its 008
Bump-Its 008
Bump-Its 010
Bump-Its 008Bump-Its 010
  
Wedding Hair Style
Bump-It Fun!
Okay so when I wanted to get these bump-its I really wanted to see someone else with them instead of the infommercial girls. Well here is my trial! lol I seriously suck at fixing my hair its normally in a pony tail!! So obviously girls with any skills with their hair would do a lot better then me!

Chase said HONESTLY "I think the back looks like an alien head" lol (He is soo sweet!) In the picture I agree, but from looking in the mirror I thought it was kinda cute! lol They work really well but Im just not sure if it is my style! I LOVE the baby bump in the front! Chase likes that too although he likes to hit it while its on my head b/c it doesnt go down! lol

Anyways good or bad I just thought I would show yall the bump-its done by a un-professional hair person! lol

P.S. - Thank You Holly84Wood for letting me buy your extra box from you!! :D You are such a sweetie! I think it was def. worth it for the two little bump-its!! :D You will have to let us know how your trial goes as well!

futuremrsniemann

3 years since wedding
Holly
Chase
Jun 20, 2009
Chandler, Oklahoma, United States
Greenfield Winery
Greenfield Vineyard
Kelly Niemann Photography
Black
We Will Be Getting Married On Our 5-Year Anniversary! Our colors are Black, White & Dark Blue! I Love Fleur-De-Lis & Feathers So Im Going To Incorporate That Here & There! Its Going To Be Great!! :)
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