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Advice needed please. Should I go to my ex BM bridal shower?
A little long sorry, but please take the time to read it. Really need your advice.
For those of you that don't know the story my ex BM is getting married. She was going to be in my wedding; however she couldnt afford to get her hair and makeup done (okay I was going to pay for it), then she couldnt afford to go to my bachelorette party. THEN she sent FH and I an "announcement" saying basically hey we're getting married... sorry you're not invited but here is where we're registered at so you can purchase us a gift!!
That was the last straw and I was going to ask her to step down from my wedding; however SHE CALLED me last week to tell me she can't afford to purchase her dress b/c she has to pay for HER wedding, so she doesnt want to be in my wedding anymore. (fine at least I wasnt the bad girl for asking her to step down) Still hurt though.
ANYWAYS... last night she texted me saying "my bridal shower is coming up... please let me know if you want to go so I can give you more details" WHAT?! First off Im not even invited to your wedding, you stepped down from being apart of MY wedding and now you want me to go to your bridal shower?!
Okay I'm trying to be the bigger person, and I'm actually considering on going.... What do you girls think I should do????