01/31/2010
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Vintage Family Wedding Photos

Hi ladies!! I need your advice! I love the idea of displaying my parents and grandparents wedding pics along with my FH's parents and grandparents. I have seen this done a few times and I think it's a great way to capture memories and show how important family is.

However, here is my dilemma. My FH's parents are divorced and his dad is remarried. Both his dad and stepmom and his mom will be at the wedding. I think it would be hurtful to his dad and stepmom to have his mom and dad's pic up and it would be hurtful to his mom to have his dad and stepmom's pic up. I don't want to do anything inappropriate but I just LOVE the idea of the generations being displayed.

Would it look weird to just have my side of the family or does that look "bitchy" like I am trying to only show off my side?

Aaggh let me know your thoughts...PLEASE!
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unpredictablebride
 |  Harvey, IL, USA  |  02/01/2010  | 
I am the same as your FH, both my parents are re  married. I think my mother would die if I posted a picture of her & my dad when they were married and she would be embarrassed. My mom & step dad have been married 26 years now. Then if I added pictures of my mother or father from both their weddings I think they would feel people would judge them.
It wouldn't hurt to ask them though because you never know right?
You can always do the safe standby and do all grandparents wedding pictures.

Try & think of it this way...
If you were married then divorced. Would you want your wedding pictures posted fro your 1st marriage? I know I wouldn't want it even if it was what my daughter wanted (Then again my 1st marriage was awful)
Just my opinion..I know its your day but you do have to watch out for feelings regardless.
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 |  Philadelphia, PA, USA  |  02/01/2010  | 
Q: i want to do this too but my FH's mom died. do i  put his step mom & dads photo? or is mom (who died) and dads pic? thanks
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