~Our Renewals~ Hey my WBC family! I've been a little hush- hush lately. Our 14th wedding ann...
As some of you know, my bachelorette party was Friday. Everything started fine. We went to dinner and my mom was there, then we went to the hotel and had a lingerie shower. I had 4 drinks at dinner, but I wasn't even close to drunk. We got to the hotel and I had a half a strawberry daiquiri before my mom started pouring the drinks out. We were supposed to go to a club at about 10 Friday night, well my mom refused to leave the hotel until 11:30 pm. She started pouring everyone's drinks out and said I wasn't allowed to drink anymore because I was about to puke I was so drunk. I wasn't even close. At this point I'd had 5 drinks in a 4 hour period of time. Never mind that...I'm 24 years old! I live with my FH, if I wanted to get drunk everyday I could! She wouldn't let us go anywhere and told me to STFU. My little sister ended up telling my mom to leave, so she finally did. It ruined my time anyway and we just ended up going to sleep. Fine, whatever.
I go home Saturday morning and as soon as I get there my mom starts blowing my cell phone up. She's screaming at me and telling me she hates me, never wants to see me again, if I go to her house she'll have me arrested, she's going to kill herself....blah blah blah! She's a liar! I didn't do anything wrong! She's pissed at me because we told her to leave my party! It was my party and she overstayed her welcome! My mom is always a drama queen. I had to go get a new phone number yesterday to get her to leave me alone! My stupid car is still in her name (paid off) because she won't sign it over to me. Now I'm worried she's going to report the car stolen so I'm looking for a new car. It's 18 days to my wedding! I can't deal with this immature bullshit!
I swear, if she comes to my wedding I'll call the police! I'm done with her, she always does this! She's been calling the whole family lying to them about what really happened so they are all calling me yelling at me. My immature older sister has been texting my FH telling him shit because I'm not answering her. She even blocked us on facebook...really? That's mature! It sounds like I'm blowing this out of proportion, but you would just have to know my mom. I'm withdrawing from my family over this. If she never wants to see me again then that's fine with me. I'm not going to go beg for her forgiveness over something I don't feel responsible for. I've done that too many times in the past. I'm not calling her anymore and I really don't want her to be involved in my life anymore. She also told me she doesn't want to have anything to do with my wedding, so that's her call. I'm not the one doing this, she is. Whatever, I'm so over it.
Sorry for the long post!