Just Wondering....???

we get the same thing but we live on our own so i guess we get taken a lot more seriously now.  we were going to wait until we both graduated and we'd be 21 & 22..but we're already facing the challenges of bill paying etc on our own now, so we decided just a couple weeks ago to just push through it.  like my aunty said, sometimes you just have to make a decision and stick with it.  my fiance turns 20 this friday, i turn 19 dec 30.  we'll be getting married next winter around my 20th bday and just before he graduates!  i'm going to school part time til fall '10 because i decided to just finish out the prenursing classes and wait til the next cycle and apply to nursing school...by the time i start he'll be graduated and working!  and by the time im 23 i'll grad w a BS in nursing a minor in English and be married!  :)  in any case if you are willing to work at this with your fiance then don't worry about what other people thing, trust me, my fiance and i (who had also only been together 3.5 months prior to being engaged...) took enough of that crap from everyone...but in the end it really doesn't matter what other people think!  they're not getting married!

I've never heard of the town your from, so I'm assuming your country people. Out here, most country people get married pretty young! Its pretty darn normal. I actually feel pretty old to be getting married at 25,  12 days of short of 26! eeek!! I think its nice to get married young. You can have kids younger and what not too! I think its lovely!

Only you know if you are ready to get married. Don't listen to anybodys opinions.Yours and your fiance's is the only opinions that matter.

While everyone is concerned that you are "young" according to their standards, they should be relieved that there is a year and a half until your wedding and if it isnt meant to be, chances are, it may surface in the next year and a half. It's not like you got engaged and are running to city hall to get married instantly. You have over a year to make sure this is what you really want to do.