Hello ladies!!!! This will more than likely be my last post on here!!! I just wanted to share wit...
So my fiancée and I are pretty far into planning our wedding. We have our wedding party picked, our venue picked, our dj and photographer. I even already have my flowers for my bouquets ( im going fake) . Our guestlist is done, and save the dates are being sent next week.
So I made a detailed wedding website. Most of my fiancees family are from out of Province, so its nice to have everything posted for them.
So i sent the website to my future Motherinlaw. Her exact response back was.
"love the link so I guess you are not planing on having janine in your wedding party?? that breaks my heart and i am sure it will break hers considering steven only has one sister"
Wow, what a response. I could not beleive she just said that. For one, my finance's sister and I DO NOT get along.. She has deleted me from facebook 3 times because she gets mad at something and over reacts and loves drama, so she deletes me. Then she tries to add me back. Ive added her back 2 times, but now Im not. I try to keep drama like that out of my life. Facebook is not the world.
She last deleted me about a month before we got engaged. Once she heard we got engaged, she tried to add me back. Typical! I ignored it. Then just this week she tries again. and write s big long note saying "Im sorry, I dont want this drama. your gonna be family blaa blaa blaa..." Ive heard that before. So i am not adding her back.
You can see why I dont want her in my wedding party. And its my wedding anyways, and I will have who I want in my party. My fiancee is not having my brothers in his party, nor would I even ask him to.
I dont think its fair that his mom would try and put that guilt on me, when she knows we dont get along.
Plus she is 26, doesnt have a job, and acts like she is 17. How would that be any help to me and our wedding. Our entire wedding party is our closest friends who are financially capable of being in our wedding, and helping.
His sister wouldnt even be able to afford to buy her dress.
I just had to vent about this. I know other people probably have similar issues with their wedding planning.