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05/13/2008
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My FH tells me every day, oh one day less.....and when I get in this page I think the same...One day less to be a MRS! My FH has asked me to move the day to a closer one but I'd like to plan everything and have both of us finantially OK. So, that is why I said no, otherwise!

Have any of you moved your dates to closer ones? Why?

Update: Eventhought I said NO for the reasons Below and A.... He insisted once again when we talked yesterday.....

HOw to stop him insiting???? I am getting kinda worried....
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soontobemrss
 |  -, -  |  05/13/2008
I have not moved mine closer, even though I think about it constantly! Ours is set for next summer. I'd love to move the date up, but just like you I'd like to have the time to help pay for everything....and it gives me time to really scope out ideas for what I want.
monieandjavietorres
 |  San bernardino, CA, United states  |  05/13/2008
I agree with soontobemrss, as much as I want to move mine up—I’d rather leave it at its original date--jus to make sure there is enough time to pay everything off--comfortably!!
tracydurmon
 |  Waco, TX, United states  |  06/26/2008
I actually had July 4, 2008 and then we changed to July 4, 2009 so I would have more time to plan exactly what I want. The only thing I could suggest as far as he goes is maybe explain to him that you are looking for all the best ideas to make it easier on ya'lls budget and this will be a way to have the wedding of your dreams and not have to pay for everything all at once. Thats how I explained it to my fiance and he was like yeah your right as usual and he has stopped commenting now lol.
corumj
 |  -, United states  |  06/30/2008
Stress comes in all forms.  That among others is why I went to the justice of the peace and got married.  I am planning a renewal of vows ceremony and a dinner party in our honor.
My husbands mom had alot of influence on why we did not wait. Everytime he talked to her he would get off the phone and beg me to go to the justice of the peace.  I was hurt because I waited so long to have something that I wanted, but him being such a  mommas boy  was determined to let his momma be in control.(CRAPPY)
Your husband to be may be feeling the stress but not nearly as much stress as you are feeling.  If this is what you want than make sure you stand your ground.  It will seem like at times that he is in another world while you are planning but in the long run it will be worth it.

Oh and by the way I am planning a renewal of vows and dinner party that I hope is off the chain.  And no one is going to make me change my mind unless someone gets sick or even worse....

Anyway stay true to yourself.
Happy Planning!
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