Ask a Question - Is your FI helping you out at all??? - HIGHLYFAVOREDBRIDE's Blue Wedding by Color Blog

Hello ladies,

I havent been on WBC in months. I have been super busy planning my upcoming wedding. I have to say that I'm a reck. I'm doing everything alone. I mean absolutely everything. My fiance' has not done anything. Well I can't say anything, he paid for the photographer, and has helped pay for the wedding; and maybe I shouldn't be complaining because Ive heard plenty of women say that their now husbands didn't help with anything!!!!! How stressful is that. I mean I can't even talk with him, or get ideas, its like Tracee you plan it the way you want too........ugh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I had to contact the groomsmen about tuxedo fitting....etc. PLEASE TELL AM I THE ONLY BRIDE GOING THROUGH THIS!! I'm going crazy. HELP!!!!!

Aw, you definitely are not the only one. I would like him to be more proactive on his part but with that said i'm over it. If he doesn't feel the need to get involved his loss. It's a big moment in our lives but I don't have the time or patience to keep wondering when he's going to help. He'll pay for whatever I ask and come to things when he has to but he doesn't go above and beyond the minimum requirements. Oh, well. Just keep doing it and realize that some men are more involved than others...and well it's really not worth getting upset about especially if you can't change him in regards to it.

I go through this also its like when i talk he has no freaking concern at all.All he says is umm humm.Umm HUmm what the Freak is that are u serious.Then on top of that i asked him to do something and he gets mad when i ask him repeating if u were to do it when i asked u i would not have to ask you again and again.then on top of that hes over seas and im like im doing this solo and it really sad that he doesn't care either way as long as its done.I just want to tell him one day that i want him to dress up like a clown and me like the ring leader and all my brides as something silly just to see what he says.

We need to start a club or something...these men are sooo useless when it comes to wedding planning! LOL!!! Huney, you are not alone, my FH does nothing, and when I try to include him in decisions, he says, "Whatever you like darling!!!" I could just shoot him!!!! LOL!

It does get hard trying to handle all the decision making of a wedding by yourself, but the part about it that makes me happy is that I get to have alot of things that I want. LOL! He cuts majority of the checks and will come to appts when I tell him he has too, but nothing more than his reasonable service.

I'm with all of you ladies and can truely feel your pain because Im going through it right now. Our wedding is in 2 months and literally its cruch time. So many decisions left to me to make, because he says "whatever you decide is cool with me" . WTF! He was good for getting his groomsmen together for the tux fitting and really thats where his part of the planning ended. I must say I love the fact that he does make sure to pay for anything I cannot or is beyond what I can afford (I still have a mortgage and car note, they didn't stop due to a wedding).

Just today I was telling him about the Strech SUV and all he could say was "call me later and tell me how much it cost" WOW

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