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01/30/2012
wp . xox
wp . xox
  
Wedding Planner
{got my day of coordinator! . xox}
I went to school to become a wedding planner/consultant and am now certified..... so it was a struggle for me to come to terms to have a day of coordinator.. (I'm a control freak)

but my friend (who i went to school with) and i were talking over the weekend and she reassured me that she would take care of my day. and it’s a great idea for me to just relax that day and have her take control of it all! so we are meeting up this weekend and going over everything i'll need her to do!

i actually feel excited now that i know i won’t have to be the one reminding people to do things. i can just sit back and relax :)

anyone else having one?

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01/30/2012
invitations . xox
HAPPY HAPPY . xox
invitations . xox
HAPPY HAPPY . xoxinvitations . xox
  
Wedding Invitation
{first batch sent! . xox}
it was a great feeling and i just couldn't believe that the time had come. we sent out our first batch of invitations (the ones going to family in the US).

It was so exciting to share that experience with FHubby.

Saturday evening, we then had my sister and brother in law come over and help us put together the favor boxes and invitations!

so all invitations are done and waiting to be sent out on Friday!

I can't believe it girls. This weekend will be 3 months to go! cray cray!!

i have some more updating to give you ladies and will do soon :)

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01/27/2012
tgif . xox
tgif . xox
  
Wedding Planner
{Busy weekend! What about you? . xox}
I feel like it was just two days ago I was asking you ladies what yall were doing last weekend! ha!

so i have a half day of work today!! (leaving in 2 hours) thank God for that! We have our appointment to order all our designs for our home and we are really excited and thanking God that after this afternoon (God willing) we can go back to concentrating on the wedding only considering we only have 3 months and 9 days to go!!!!

lots to do this weekend! we are going to finish buying the BP gifts and putting them together! We are sending out our first set of invitations today (the ones to the US for my family) and putting together the rest of the 54 invitations still to do to send them out the end of next week!

I am just soo excited! I hope you all have a great and blessed weekend! I will take pictures of every moment and update you all on Monday!

so what are you ladies up to this weekend?

PS. 99 DAYS TO GO!!!!! aaaaaahhhhh!

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01/26/2012
100 days . xox
100 days . xox
  
Wedding Planner
{100 days to go!!!!! . xox}
OMG ladies, i cannot believe it! there is ONLY 100 days left!!! and when i look on my WBC countdown and see it already at 99 days (if it wasn't a leap year) makes me so excited! ...wait until tomorrow when it reaaaaally is 99 days lol!

100 DAYS!! 100 DAYS!! 100 DAYS!! 100 DAYS!! 100 DAYS!! 100 DAYS!! 100 DAYS!! 100 DAYS!! 100 DAYS!! 100 DAYS!! 100 DAYS!!

Woooo!!!!


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01/24/2012
eatdrinkmarried
eatdrinkmarried
  
Wedding Rehearsal
{date set! . xox}
wooohooo!!

my church called me this afternoon, and advised that we had to book our rehearsal at the church, so we did :)

Wednesday, May 2nd 2012 at 7:00PM

So excited! We will have the rehearsal dinner that night as well. The Thursday i will go over everything and prepare it all to be taken to the hall & church and spend my last few hours with my Future Husband -We are spending the Firday apart and only seeing each other on the day of :)
Then the Friday, (day before) i will take all the stuff over to the hall and church and then spend the day with my girls.

omg, its almost here!!!!

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01/24/2012
update . xox
update . xox
  
Wedding Planner
{updates! . xox}
updates! updates!

so we have been very busy and all in good ways!

This weekend, we focused more so on our home designing all morning and half of the afternoon on Sunday. But Saturday and yesterday we focused on the wedding. got all my BP gifts together. FHubby is still missing one more part of his gifts and then we'll be done forsure. I'll post pictures once it is all complete.

We have to put together a bunch more invitations this weekend! BUT we do send out our first batch of invitations -to our out of country guests- this friday which we are supa excited about!! then the rest, next week :)

today, i have sent a msg to all my girls about getting a hair and makeup trial with me. if they all want to, then we can just make it a girls day! if not, i'll be flying solo which is cool too lol. but i've told them to let me know by Monday so i can book it next week for the first week of March.

& that's my wedding update :)

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01/20/2012
tgif . xox
tgif . xox
  
Wedding Planner
{TGIF - what's up for the weekend? . xox}
TGIF ladies! i hope all is well with you beautiful brides!

we have a full weekend ahead of us, but only half of it has to do with the wedding.

here are my goals for this weekend;

-put together a few more invitations
-put together the BP gifts


tomorrow i'll be focusing on that, because Sunday, we have to go to the Design Center to design the inside of our home!!! eeeekkkk!!! we have to do that this weekend because next Friday (a week from today) is when we have our 3 hour appointment there to confirm everything and to order it all so it’s ready and here for them to install when they start to build it this summer. we are soo excited!! wooo!!!

what are you ladies up to this weekend?


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01/19/2012
bridal shower . xox
bridal shower . xox
  
Bridal Shower
{one month to go! . xox}
I am so excited!!! there is only ONE month until my shower! God willing everything goes great and I enjoy it!
I have dreamed about this day since I was a little girl! I honestly would think about my shower every time i would go to one lol. this time, i'm not just a guest. . . i'm the guest of honor! eeeeekkkk!!!

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01/18/2012
working hard . xox
working hard . xox
  
Wedding Photography
{FHubby's first project . xox}
He is so cute <3

so all weekend we spent time going through all the albums we have of myself when i was a baby growing up, and same with him. We included lots of pictures of our guests as well so that will be an enjoyment for them. Our DJ had given us the option of either a 15 picture each slide show, or a slide show that plays on a big screen TV with as many as 500 pictures all night. We chose that big screen TV and thought it was a nice idea that we don't see often and we can include the guest's pictures that we have from gatherings and such.

So FHubby is home today and his project is to scan all the pictures to the computer so i can put them in a file and copy them to a CD and hand it to our DJ :)

Good luck FHubby LOL <3


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01/17/2012
monster in law . xox
monster in law . xox
  
Inviting the In Law's. . .
{this could be the biggest mistake . xox}
Warning! very long

ok, so this goes back way back when... the very first of my WBC girls know all the ins and outs, but just to clear it for my new girls....

FHubby and I have been friends since the age of 7. Family friends.

A few months when FHubby and I started to date, we became the best of friends. Closer than ever before. Always together. His mom did not like this. Always giving him little jabs like “you’re always on the phone, get a life.” “You’re always on the computer talking to her, go do something.” “You’re always at her house, that looks bad.” Stupidness. But I just took it in and let it be. It is his mother after all.

Without getting into personal details…. FHubby and his mom started to get into arguments about other things that had NOTHING to do with me or our relationship. But the whole time we were dating I was always never invited over, I would always give them birthday gifts, and never got anything on mine, not even a happy birthday. I was FSIL’s bridesmaid for her wedding in 2010 and did so much for her, and all I got was slaps to the face with rude comments and disrespect.

Once Sergio purposed that’s when it all came out. The blame was all on me. I knew the hate was there the whole time. But, I am always the bigger person and hate drama, so I actually swallowed my pride and called his mom one day and tried to speak to her and kind of reach out so maybe she would see me as wanting to be a part of the family, not the other way around. But unfortunately, she is not that kind of person. All I got was blame on FHubby and she did nothing wrong, and at the end when she raised her voice at me, I decided to (with respect) end the call.

A month later, his sister desided to get involed and started to bring in my family…. WTF? My family? And that’s with shit hit the fan. Things got ugly and it was never the same. It became so stressful and bad that FHubby finally moved out and in with me.
His mom would call our house and when I would pick up she would hang up and keep calling until FHubby picked up. He finally told her if she didn’t answer when I picked up the phone then to stop calling. She still continued to do that, and one day FHubby changed our phone number and now she only has my cell phone number to contact him….. do you think she calls? Never.

She ends up calling my parents phone (she has no shame) to let us know that his sister is prego… he says he doesn’t care, but I know more than anything that he wants that baby in his life. So once again I swallow my pride and the next day at work, I txt msg his sister saying congratulations. The conversation proceeded well, and I ended up inviting her and her husband over to dinner so we can all work things out. She accepted. 2 weeks later, the dinner did not go as accepted. She blew up and she ruined everything. FHubby told her he never wanted her to contact us again and wanted her out of our lives. Let’s just say, the things that was said by her, you would never believe. The statements that were being said were not in any way normal. So we ended ties with his family. All though what I have wrote is a summery and not very detailed, it has a lot in this story. I ended up having my clinical anxiety come back and frequent nose bleeds because of the drama with his family.

Ever since they have been out of our lives, I’m back to normal. Thank God.

But now, I fought with FHubby for a while with this topic…. Do we invite them to the wedding? His answer is NO! My statement is, we are better than them. They will hold this over our head forever. He wasn’t having it. He would say remember how you were not invited to FSIL’s baby shower or the babies baptism. So I made a compromise. I agreed not to invite his sister, all though I also said, I am not her and I will invite your parents. We are better people then they are. But at least invite his parents. Nothing but as guests. It took him a while, but he agreed.

I am just worried that she will do something. Make a scene, start balling, will follow him all night… ect..

Could the right thing to do, be the biggest mistake we make?

My sister sent her a shower invitation and she has until Feb. 3rd to RSVP…. So we will see. I will keep you posted.


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hismrsb

1 year since wedding
Sabrina
Sergio
May 05, 2012
Mississauga, Ontario, Canada
St. Joseph Church
Ambiance Banquet Hall
Studio Cabral
Purple
our wedding will be in the spring of two thousand and twelve. we are having a traditional Portuguese wedding, very elegant & classy with a romantic atmosphere. our color combo is purple & silver, with bling everywhere and white accents.

God has blessed me with an amazing fiancé. i cannot wait to become his wife, his mrs. Bouça, in the presence of God. <3

{now to plan this fairytale wedding . xox}

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