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Girls, I've come to accept that drama simply comes with wedding planning. But why must everything be so damn dramatic?
I've had this best friend since childhood. She and I grew up together. We're almost like sisters. I've been there for her through everything. I was the MOH in her first and second wedding. I was there for her when she had her kid and even threw the surprise baby shower for her! So now, when I need her, she is no where to be found.
Jake and I are only going to have one MOH and one Best Man. We don't want t huge wedding party, so no groomsmen and no bridesmaids. Just the Maid of Honor and the Best Man. The only person I could think of was my best friend from childhood. There is no one else. So I asked her if she would do me the honor of being my MOH. She says to me that she had been holding back her true feelings about my fiance for a long time and that the past two years we have been together she was hoping we would not get engaged. When I asked her why would she say that she said that she doesn't like the fact that he has been married before. She herself has been married twice and divorced twice. So I didn't get why she would say that. She said it's because I have never been married before and she feels like I should marry someone who has never been married before too. What the hell does that have to do with anything?
Then she goes on to say that she doesn't think that he is good enough for me because we have different kinds of careers. I am a large business owner and my FH is a chef for a small business restaurant. She feels like he isn't going to live up to the standards. This is coming from a person who does nothing! She does not have a job, she lives with her mother, and has a child and we are best friends. So I asked her since we are best friends and she doesn't live as I do, does that mean we should not be friends? She starts crying and says she can't talk to me because I hurt her feelings and I'm selfish and inconsiderate.
Did I miss something? I was so confused and hurt by all of this. I suddenly have no best friend, no MOH, and I'm confused about how all of this happened. Everything seemed fine until I asked her to be my MOH and I showed her the picture of my wedding dress. She just started crying and saying all of these cruel things. It was so unbelievably dramatic. I let her say everything she wanted to say, and the moment I make a point and argue what she's saying she gets mad and gives up on our friendship.
I don't understand :(