This is jaslynn2003's Blue Wedding!

90 used 10 new=100 white polyester square banquet chair covers- $200 plus shipping

85 BRAND NEW- polyester white round chair covers- $180 plus shipping

3- over lays $ 15 plus shipping

mantilla veil- $35 free shipping in USA Or $40 To canada :)

SZ 4 black satin dress from davids bridal $50- Free shipping

100 Satin Turqouise/ Tiffany blue sashes- $80 plus shipping

Pool Blue dress- Fits size 14- 16 wedding dress size-- I used this as my reception dress $50 Free shipping

I will combine shipping
Please message me if interested
Thanks

I have a Sz 4 black dress from Davids Bridal
Satin... good quality material
Selling for $65 Free shipping!!!!
Purchased for $120

It could be your mom, bff, or even a WBC Bride... tell us who has inspired you through this crazy journey we call wedding planning???

My inspiration was Marta

As we know we lost Marta last year... but till this day even after my wedding I go to her page and think how talented could a person be and she deff was. She inspired my whole wedding...
I wish i could have had her here to help me and other brides... but all reason why she left a paper trail to her talented beautiful work. For all future brides to go back and take notes. I am the only child that has gotten married so it was hard to go to anyone for advise or ask for help. So every now and then I would go and look at everyone of her blogs just to clear my head and see her beautiful wedding and mold it my way. Many brides have inspired me on here but Marta so far has been my biggest inspiration. Along with Rhonda, Gratefulbride, Tashita, Mrsredford and the rest of them. Thanks girls for helping me make my dreams come true and also inspire me to go along with my DIY and help other brides :0
GOD Bless

I have the folowing for sale:

100- sashes- $80

10- table runners- $30

3- overlays- $15

everything is plus shipping. If you purchase multiple items I will combine shipping.

Thanks ladies and if you have any questions please ask....
Happy planning

EVERYONE ALWAYS SAYS HOW MUCH THEY LOVE WBC BUT IS THERE ANYTHING THT BOTHERS YOU OR YOU THINK SHOULD CHANGE. I KNOW SOME PEOPLE MIGHT NOT EXPRESS WHAT THEY DONT LIKE... SO HERE IS YOUR CHANCE.

PRO--- I LOVE THE WAY EVERYONE SHARES THERE IDEAS WITH EACHOTHER. SO MANY PEOPLE HAVE INSPIRED ME IN MANY WAYS, AND THE BEST THING THT EVER HAPPEND IN THIS PLANNING PROCESS WAS ME FINDING THIS SITE.

CON'S--- I HATE THT IF I GOOGLE MY NAME (JASLYNN2003) IT TAKES YOU RIGHT TO THE SITE AND RIGHT TO YOUR WHOLE LIFE BASICALLY. WE ALL VEN O HERE AND WE DONT WANT FMIL FINDING OUT HOW MUCH WE REALLY HATE HER...LMAO. (I GUESS THTS A INTERNET PROBLEM) I ALSO DONT LIKE THT IF EVERYONE IS POSTING SOMETHING AT THE SAME TIME YOUR POST MAY NOT BE POSTED. ALSO YOU CANT POST 2 THINGS WITHIN 10 MINUTES BECAUSE IT WILL POST INCORRECLY.

I have a brand new Mantilla veil for sale that I never got to use.
It is White and very pretty.
The price includes shipping in the USA, If shipping to canada $40

THANKYOU TO EVERYONE THAT PARTICIPATED. I WILL BE DOING ANOTHER DRAWING SOON IN THE NEXT 2 WEEKS.

IF YOU ARE STILL INTERESTED IN THE TABLE NUMBERS PLEASE JUST MESSAGE ME.

THANKYOU AND HAVE A WONDERFUL AND BLESSED WEEKEND

1--Be aware that there is a belief that mothers-in-law often assume that daughters-in-law are terrible manipulators who wickedly control their son's lives. It's not always true - more often, the mother-in-law just doesn't want to face the fact that now she must stand behind another woman in her son's life. Other common issues: Mother feels a little less important to her child, Mother wants to be more involved with the young couple, Mother still sees son/daughter as her child rather than someone's spouse. These issues can lead Mother to be overly critical or to get her nose bent out of joint over little things. Don't make judgmental comments as she does, but let your husband (or wife) know that it hurts. You are entitled to share these feelings with your spouse (your best friend). Do not criticize her - remember this is his/her mother - but don't protect her either. You can say something like, "Honey, your mom may not mean to be hurtful, but tonight, she was. In the future, if she says something like (give the example that hurt you), I would appreciate it if you would speak up for me - maybe say something like (a respectful response which tells his/her mother that she is not being very nice, and that your spouse is not happy about it)".

2--Does your spouse support you? It's very important, and will determine your success in dealing with your mother-in-law. Sometimes you need to tell your spouse there's a problem, since s/he will not want to ruffle any feathers. It's important to face this problem head-on with your spouse, as soon as possible. Be clear, and offer specific solutions that will be acceptable to you. Don't criticize your mother-in-law, just calmly state, "It hurt my feelings when your mother implied that it was I who "made you" move here/change jobs/buy a new car." (Encourage your spouse to make it clear to his/her mother that it was both of you as a couple who made these decisions, and that she should not be blaming you.) Each of you should take responsibility for putting your marriage/spouse first, and your childhood family next, which sometimes requires you to protect your marriage from your birth family. If your husband/wife will not step up and protect you from his/her mother, then you have a problem that will plague you for your entire marriage.

3--You don't need to move cross-country, but you also don't need to show up at every event. It's acceptable for your spouse to attend some family things without you. This should not be a common occurrence, however, you should not try to drive a wedge between your spouse and his family. On the other hand, if your spouse is often content to go without you, it's a big win for that mother of his/hers - she gets to spend time with her child and avoid you completely. Even if it's easier, this will cause discord in your marriage eventually, so it's highly recommended that you make it clear that you don't intend to be a "stay-home" spouse, just so that Mother can be appeased. Encourage your spouse to stand up for you, or this issue will follow you forever. But do understand that you probably won't be getting a lot of hugs from dear old Mom, and it's best to keep a little space between you and her.

4--If your mother-in-law has criticized you, stabbed you in the back to other family members, and has been dismissive of things you've said, she is making a very clear statement about this "relationship". Believe her. She may be occasionally nice. Judgmental, negative people often do this; they do something nice to reel you in, and then grab the opportunity to make a jab at you. If she's done this, remember to keep your distance even when she's being nice. You are more important than your relationship to your mother-in-law! Take care of yourself. Let the hopes go. Look to other women for mentoring, advice, kindness, role modeling. You probably have to write this woman off. It's not going to happen.

5--Before coming in contact with the in-law, visualize the scenarios which always manage to get under your skin. What is it that is said or done that makes your blood boil? Once you determine those triggers (which tend to be the same emotionally, manifested in various ways), think about ways in which you can avoid them.

6--If Mother-In-Law attempts to use guilt as a tool of manipulation (which is extremely common), it’s fairly easy to overcome. Whenever you perceive her attempting to manipulate your emotions by making you feel guilty, bring the whole matter to conscious awareness by asking, “You’re not trying to make me feel guilty, are you?” She will probably deny it, but soon the pattern will re-emerge. Keep interrupting the pattern of falling into a state of guilt by bringing attention to her emotionally manipulative tactics. Simply keep asking questions like, “You're trying to guilt me again. Why?” or “You must really find this upsetting if you feel it necessary to try to make me feel guilty to get what you want. Can we try a different way of discussing this?” You don’t need to beat her up about it, and you don't want to say anything to her that your spouse would hate to hear you saying (such as reprimanding her, or telling her to be more mature) but put a stop to the use of guilt as a weapon, once and for all. If you refuse to enter the emotional state of guilt, it will allow you to be more objective and compassionate in seeing that she is probably using guilt because she feels powerless. If you can address that sense of powerlessness (i.e., say something in front of the family to flatter her, such as "We usually reserve Friday nights for dinner with Mom and Dad - we need family time with them!" This gives her a sense of importance in front of everyone, and helps her feel needed and wanted), you have the opportunity to transform the relationship for good


Thought this would be great for the ones tht have monster in laws... and for the ones tht dont LUCKY YOU!!!! LOL
XOXOXOXOXOX

I am offering to make these tears of joy packets for $0.75 each.
They already include a Kleenex Tissue.

Please make your order soon, the more you order the more discount you get.

Thanks chicas--- have a great week!!!!!!!!!!!