my fiance and his family dont appreciate the whole big wedding thing ... his parents went to city hall, his older brother did the city hal thing and chris would RATHER do the city hall thing... but he is FULLy aware i will not go for that lol i wish i could have a wedding like out of Platinum Weddings but , neither of us are rich .. We're paying for this our selves he's given me a budget of 7,000.00 to work with =/ ... but would like if i could stay under 5! he's hilarious!... lol... i'm going to try and do as much DIY stuff as i can ! and we're doing alot of shopping around for the best packages for everything =)