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05/22/2009
contract1
contract1
  
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Break a contract: Has anyone done this?
I'm thinking about breaking my photography contract.

The photograhers are a husband and wife duo. The husband met with FH and I and we really liked him so we signed a contract and put a $700 deposit down.

Since then, the wife and I have corresponded regarding the details. A few weeks ago, she said she would email me a timeline (so my other vendors could coordinate) "soon".

Two weeks roll around and no timeline so I email her and call her twice in one day. No answer and no response. So I called her husband, he was very nice and got me the timeline BUT I don't get a good vibe from the wife. Thus, I want to break the contract.

Also, I re-read the contract. Apparently, touching up photos is up to their discrepancy. When we first met with the husband, I am pretty sure he said they touched up all photos.

How do I do this and get my $700 back? Any words of wisdom?
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05/21/2009
Lakita - Slumdog Millionaire
Lakita - Slumdog Millionaire
  
Bride entrance song
Crazy idea
Today at work, while listening to youtube, I re-listened to a song from Slumdog Millionaire. Latika's Theme - A. R. Rahman featuring Suzanne

FH and I love this song...in fact, the whole soundtrack. I am debating using this as my ceremony entrance song. The wedding march doesn't envoke any emotion from me but this song does. Crazy idea?
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05/20/2009
Envelope
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Help if you know invitation etiquette!
Question #1
For pocket fold invitations, are you supposed to do an inner and outer envelope? Someone told me that it's not proper etiquette when you have pocket folds.

Question #2
Do you put the envelope liner on the outer or inner envelope?


Sorry for the ignorant questions, I'm more of an email/evite type of person.
05/19/2009
Kisses
Kisses
Favor Boxes
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Candy
Hershey Kisses Info
Today I was curious about the lifespan of Hersey Kisses. Really, my curiosity was over how soon I could buy the Kisses and make the favor boxes.

So I called Hershey's to find out!

On each bag of chocolate, there is a code. Only the last 2 digits are important. This code will let you know the "best use by" date.

Second to last digit - Year
8 - 2008
9 - 2009
0 -2010

Last digit - Month
A - Jan
B - Feb
C- Mar
D - Apr
(so forth)
L - Dec

Hope this helps! Oh yeah, the best temp to store it is from 65 to 70 degrees.
05/19/2009
To do List
To do List
  
To do list
4 Months to go and this to do...
Work disabled gmail (so annoying) so now I can't check my e-list. Thankfully they didn't disable WBC!

Do this soon:
- Rings
- Garter Belt
- Present for kids in wedding
- Music (make playlist and pick bride + groom song)
- Buy toasting flutes
- Get B-U-N-N letters from ebay
- Get vellum to make damask wraps for votive candles or buy someone else's already made ones
- Parent gifts
- Make labels for OOT boxes
- Finish card box
- Finalize invitations
- Sweetheart Table Overlay (learn how to sew and make one)

Month before wedding:
- Order champagne glasses, how many?
- Crest white strips

Week before wedding:
- Marriage license
- Choc covered Pretzels for OOT bags
- Buy granola, water, and Advil for OOT boxes
- Buy Hersey kisses and prepare favor boxes
list, 4 months
05/15/2009
Rehearsal Dinner Dress
Rehearsal Dinner Dress
  
Rehearsal Dinner Dress
I LOVE THIS!!!
It's an After Six style #6507 dress that's meant to be a bridesmaids dress. I don't know if I'll do white lace with white satin, I may do white lace with light pink satin!

On the weddingbee.com, a girl is actually using it for her wedding dress. I absolutely love it for the rehearsal dinner!
05/15/2009
pro-BouquetTossBack
pro-BouquetTossBack
  
Wedding Flowers
Are you getting a separate bouquet for the toss?
My florist says this is a good idea since the brides bouquet is normally too heavy. Is anyone getting a separate one just got the toss? If so, is it made of real flowers or fake?

Any tips on a DIY bouquet would be helpful too.
05/14/2009
Blue Weight Loss Progress My own personal calendar
  
Weight Loss Progress
My own personal calendar
May 6 - 170 Starting weight
May 13 - 167.5
May 15 - 165
May 20 - 164





Goal weight - 125
05/14/2009
Kay
Kay
  
Wedding Dress
Please help...size dilemma
Before buying a size 16 wedding dress, I told my dress consultant that I was going to lose a lot of weight before the wedding. She assured me they can take it down 2 sizes.

(That sounds like a super duper large size but I really am a street size 10-12).

I signed up for a diet program and am on a projected path to lose approx. 55 pounds before the wedding. This is more than 2 dress sizes.

Should I trade in my dress now (David's Bridal doesn't allow returns) and get a size 14 or a size 12?

Pic - Me in the size 16 (fake smile, sis took the pic on her cell to send to mom)
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kaflleje

4 years since wedding
Kay
Andrew
Sep 26, 2009
Jacksonville, Florida, United States
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Black and White Damask with Tiffany Blue accents
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