With less than 5 months to go I get a phone call today from one of my bridesmaids saying her sister has planned her wedding for the same day at the same time our wedding is about 100 miles from where our wedding is, so she wont be able to be in our wedding. Not only did we lose a bridesmaid but we also lost a groomsman because of this since they are husband and wife. We think instead of trying to hunt someone down to fill a bridesmaid and groomsman position we are just gonna keep the 4 bridesmaids and groomsmen we have.