Ask a Question - WARNING!! PG-RATED QUESTION: S.e.x. or sleep on wedding night?

I think that usual people assume there will be boat rockin on the wedding night. I know we probably will but i think this is one of those things that whatever happens happens. I know we are using our honeymoon to make a baby!

since it will be my first time... haha

Constance, serious???

Rock the Boat, Baby !! .... 1 Wedding Night in a lifetime (hopefully) I wouldn't pass that up for some beauty sleep!

It all depends seriously on how tired both of us are from an all day wedding. He may be surprised on how exausting a wedding is.

Gee, I feel like an old bag now...
Everyone's getting frisky, so looks like I gotta put my ass in gear for Hubby.

We are planning on ROCKING THE BOAT on our wedding night! We are waiting till marriage anyways, so our wedding night should be extra special for us :)

We are definitely having fun on our wedding night!!!!

shit...sleep. i have way too much sex anyway.

Maybe a quickie in the limo on the way to the hotel? Or in the bridal suite at the reception hall? we shall see if we make it to the hotel room

80% of people I talk to say they were too tired. I'm sure we both will be exhausted but who knows, I will let the mood take control and won't be specifically planning anything.

I cannot belive you are actually asking this!! I would expect my fiance to expect to rock the flip out of the boat so much so that it sinks worse than the Titanic. If however, you BOTH agree, at that time, that you are too tired, then so be it. However to go into your wedding day asking yourself if you should or shouldn't is, in my opinion, selling out and selling out hard. Have you asked your hubby this question? Did you even consider asking him? By the way, its BOTH your wedding day.

answer above me is pretty serious...

but me...no not serious... but it sounds good right??? or a little crazy :) unless i am really wasted and feeling frisky... no way... i plan to party until can't stand...

oh and... i do not need to ask my fiance... hes always game... so he does not get what he wants lol

Claude,
Selling out?????? Why so harsh? You're hurting my feelings!! :o)
Since you know me so well, let me present some of the facts:
I DO talk to my hubby, if I didn't, what would be the point of marrying him. He said the same thing as others above: maybe a quickie, maybe a full-on session, maybe just a cuddle and lots of kisses. Is my marriage gonna be doomed just because I don't do my husband on the wedding night??Pleeeeaaase! We've been living together for 5 years and trust me there's a lot of sex going on. But thanks for your great input anyway!

I did not mean to hurt your feelings, really. Nor did I mean to say that you didn't or don't talk to your hubby. I also didn't mean any disrespect. I was just confused by the question posed. To me, that is something that you would deal with at the moment with your hubby. I suppose you wouldn't be used to my tone either and so why you thought it harsh. I apologize.

Thanks Claude, no hard feelings. :o)

I'm so focused on planning our wedding that this is the last thing I have on my mind...lol

Definitely rockin' the boat! I'm guessing it'll be a quickie, then sleep, then lots the rest of the honeymoon... but I picture us tired and very drunk. Who knows though? Just go with the flow with how the night goes :-)

I have no idea.. just for the simple fact that I know im going to party like its 1999 lol. Plus weddings are exhausting and you dont have to be a genius to know that. I know im going to be exhausted either way but if my hubby is down then it is soooooooo on.

It's a more of a in the moment kinda thing. If you're both feeling it, it won't matter what you planned.

I am defiantly getting some on my wedding night :D

Personally, I'm probably going to just go to sleep the first night, and compromise to wake him up in the morning. ;)

I hear that legally you are not married untill you "consummate" the marriage (have sex). i watched this court show where the wife was trying to get alimony but the husaband said that she hasn't slept with him since before they were wed. the woman agreed, and the judge said that since that was true she wasn't entitled to any alimony because the marriage hadn't been consummated. crazy huh?

You handled that comment above very well... I would be like... THIS IS A BLOG, Obviously MOST women will consult their partner about everything, but this a place where you can ask a question and hear what other brides are doing!
P.S. Claude
I am SO happy to hear you will be expecting your fiance to "rock the flip out of the boat so much so that it sinks worse than the Titanic" I do hope however, that he is not tired... you don't want him to be a sell-out after all....

i know this post is old, but i just found it lol and i have to say my fiance is the one saying we'll probably be way too exhausted! haha i'm like what the!?!?! my attitude is, whatever happens, happens...but his is like 'yeah right, we'll be so tired, its not gonna happen'....we'll see who wins! haha i'm a july 19th bride as well! so crazy how time flies eh?

My FH goes to sleep as soon as he hits the bed after any party or event we go to, so I can party all I want, I know he will be Knocked Out after we settle...LOL!

I asked my FH that as we are both sleep wimps and he said he didn't care if it was the worst sex we ever have we are having sex on our wedding night lol.