Well Ladies, I just added up again how much this wedding is going to cost. I have been pretty ...
Ok.. as it is getting closer.. all the payments are starting to roll out. And I'm beginning to seriously feel ill about how much we are paying for this day!!
What was I thinking???
I mean, I'm going to love it, it's going to be beautiful... but who do I think I am? Why did I need to pick this venue which is costing us a small fortune?
Ugh.. we have approx 90 guests... and we're doing an open bar, so that right there costs a pretty penny. And we're doing it at a venue that I need to pay a fee to put up a big white tent for the reception, so that's another big cost that I wouldn't have if I chose a different venue.
I LOVE MY VENUE...but I HATE the costs.
My fiance would kill me if he knew I was feeling this way... as it took a lot of convincing for me to get him on board with what we're spending.
I know it's too late to do anything about it now.. with less than 2 months to go.. there is nothing we can cut or change..if anything it's just getting slowly bigger :S
We're spending approx $25,000 - including the honeymoon. I hear that's about average in our area..but it's just SO much money. We already own our first house..and we're not having kids right away, so the debt we will end up with will be paid off quick enough and isn't being taken away from any other major life plans right now..but it just feels silly sometimes.
Just starting to feel the 'pinch' as it gets closer...anyone else feeling regrets?