Mar 6, 2010
Is This Wrong?
My FH's bachelor party is tonight. They are going out to eat and then to a strip club. I'm okay with it. I'm not worried or anything. But there is something that does bother me about it. Maybe it shouldn't be a big deal. But it just rubs me the wrong way. It makes me kinda upset because a few girls are going too. Some of the guys invited girls and something inside of me just doesn't feel that's right. I know the girls, but it bothers me. First of all, in my opinion, bachelor parties are supposed to be for men. It should be a night for my FH to enjoy spending a fun time with his boys. Second of all, it makes me think, "If those girls can go then I should go." Third of all, I think that it's kind of risrepsectful to the bride of those girls going. It just makes me mad. No, I'm not going ballistic about it. Yes, I can get over it. But I just think it's rude that those girls are going and that my FH's friends think it's okay.
What do you think? Would it bother you if girls were going to you FH's bachelor party?