Feb 24, 2011
This is one of my childhood friends and also my fiances brother's ex girlfriend. I knew things would be awkward with her in the wedding because FH's brother is the best man and there's tension between the two so I'm really not super shocked she backed out.. anyways, After trying to get in touch with her for 3 days straight and no reply she responded to my text today saying she wouldn't be able to make it or dresses because of a money issue. Now let me make this clear, I let all the girls know dresses needed to be ordered this Saturday over a month ago..I know money is tight for everyone but I really feel like she's trying to get out of it anyway so I told her not to feel obligated to be in the wedding, because I would be needing more of her help since we are only 5 months out. She told me now just isn't a good time and that she can't do it.. my peeve is, I asked her over a year ago and she reassured me that she could do it. I understand things come up but this is just one more let down from my bridal party, we've been friends for so long I thought for sure I could depend on her. I was there for her through her breakup and the one she called at 2am to talk to.. now when I need her she wants to back out?She called me and left a VM asking if I was mad.. and I know I have no right to be mad because at least she told me.. but im so sick of being there for everyone when they need it and the minute I need a little support everyone dissapears! I just can't bring myself to talk to her right now. I really have nothing to say.. Ughhhh I'm so frustrated! I don't know what I'd do without my FMIL, mom and my best friend who have totally been there for me. THANK GOD FOR THEM!
So I'm trying to look on the bright side! One less bridal bouquet to buy and also one less bridesmaids gift :)
So down 1, leaves me with 5!
Thanks for letting me vent (once again ladies!!) hopefully this is the last one!