This is legalvamp's Blue Wedding!

Okay, I have 2 months to the wedding and I can't seem to get anything done! I decided to take 2 days off from work. On the first day I went shopping for shoes...3 malls...3 states...no shoes. On the second day, the wedding coordinator was sick and could not meet with me; my florist showed me what I thought I wanted for centerpieces and no I am not so sure I even like them; AND I get a phone call that the favors I ordered 2 1/2 months ago will not be available to ship until after my wedding. Are you kidding me?! Even when I do get things done, they end up not being done! So after 2 days off, I am back to the drawing board regarding favors; unsure of my centerpieces; have yet to finalize my menu; AND HAVE NO SHOES!

How long has it been since the 2 of you got together? With the exception of a few "breaks" (probably totaling 6 months or so), we have been together for almost 22 years. So I guess I was just wondering if there were any other couples here that had long-term relationships before deciding to get married.

As luck would have it, my MOH and I both agreed on the very 1st dress she tried on. We both also agreed she will not be showing this much cleavage!

Okay, I'm indecisive. I know that. Everyone who knows me, knows that. Did I ever think I would have such a hard time picking a dress? Should have known. I tried on over 30 gowns. Last night I had my decision down to 2. Then the nightmares came and this morning I was back up to 4. Made ANOTHER trip to the bridal shop. Hated all them all by the time I tried them on, so I started trying on more. Thank God my MOH was with me - love you Tam! - she was so good to me. All of a sudden I put one on and really liked it. Then I tried on others. Then I tried on the previous "final 2". I went back to the new one again. AND THEN I BOUGHT IT!

I think one of my problems was that my sister and friends took a lot of pictures of me in the different gowns and then I had a lot of time to study them. So I'd like 1 one day and then hate the way it looked on me the next. I guess it was a blessing in disguise after all and finally I can say "I knew when I put it on". Now I feel like a real bride.