So I was browsing the Web this morning and came across some websites that help our men in the planning process. I don't know about you ladies but without wedding websites I would be clueless to most parts of the wedding process. I know for me, my FH is clueless, completely and ridiculously clueless (lmao). So why shouldn't our men have an outlet for ideas, support, and venting and give them the opportunity for us to say "Oh, I didn't even think of that." Especially if you find him saying time and time again "Oh, I didn't know that." So I sent my FH an e-mail of the links I have below to help him in the I-Do process.
Some Funny conversations that lead me to believe that he needed these sites:
"Yes, I know your a chef but you can not cook all the food for the wedding the day before."
"Yes, your best man throws the Bachelor party not you."
"No, your friend can not plan the wedding because she just got married and thinks she good at it."
"Yes, all of the colors have to match"
"Am I supposed to get the addresses?"
"Babe, did you get the addresses for me?" "Oh you need them now?"
"So you are supposed to have more than one ring."
"Why are we getting gifts for our guest when were paying for everything" ya'll he stumped me on this one I had to say "Um...we just do" lol
This was the kicker y'all:
"Do we go to the courthouse before of after the wedding?"
Now my dearest FH is one of the smartest men I have ever meet. Even last night he explained the genes between living organisms to me and different sequences that genes fall into. Hey he even drew a diagram on the spot. I'm not the science geek here. He knows as much about the wedding as I do about science.
Now if your FH is a little left behind about wedding planning, then refer him to these sites:
http://www.iamstaggered.com/
http://www.groompower.com/index.html
http://www.theplunge.com/
http://www.groomsonline.com/
Oh and I found one that I hated do not show your guy this one but some of you may think it's funny
http://www.icbe.org/weddings/index.shtml
*EDIT* I should mention that my FH now wants to be more involved in the planning. That is why I say "left behind".
Thanks for sharing the links!!
I read the "how to propose" on the last link... funny. :)